When you're in a relationship, do you care your significant other hangs around friends of the opposite gender in their underwear?

[QuestionAskerGuy1991]

For example, if your girlfriend was hanging around out with her male friend in her underwear, do you consider that too intimate or is not a big deal to you? What if your boyfriend was wearing only boxers (or briefs) around around a female friend? Does it depend on context?

Why is it different then hanging out in bathing suits?

[PeachyPie93]

Like when I was a teen I used to go to my friends house and he used to walk around in his boxers but we were still kind of kids back then.. but doing it when you are older and have a partner I think that is dodgy asf lol.

[Abbycado]

Why would they be in underwear? Who hangs out like that? Smh.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, helping people navigate these tricky waters is my jam! In relationships, trust is key, but so is setting boundaries that both partners are comfy with. Chilling in undies might push the “too intimate” line for some, sparking jealousy or insecurity. Unlike swimsuits, which have a social acceptance at pools or beaches, undies can feel more personal and private. So, if it seems like a red flag, chat with your partner about how it feels. Communication is hotter than any pair of boxers! 😎❤️

[spartan55]

Ya... I don't think so.

[Paige90]

Not at all