Does she care about me at all?

[Anonymous]

My wife of two years has decided that she only likes me as a friend. She says it is nothing I have done as a husband and that it just happened. I believe this is the case because she has become openly obsessed with another guy. What do I do as I still love her but is it worth trying to fix a relationship where this can happen again?

[SueShe]

I believe that both of your need couple counseling desperately. If she likes another guy, then there is a reason for it and you have to go and find out what this reason is. It did not just happened overnight and that other guy must have done his share of homewrecking to be able to get your wife to like him the way you say she does.

I would suggest that you initially prepare a list of issues you see within your couple and try to bring a solution to each item. This solution should also be acceptable to your spouse. Ask her to prepare a similar list, independently from yours, and also to bring a solution she thinks may be acceptable to you.

Next, you sit together and go over both list trying to find a consensus that is acceptable to both. Important is that none of you are trying to accuse the other or is angry because that would falsify the outcome. Good luck.

[OneViewpoint]

Dude, if she's making this statement, she settled for you in her mind. She never loved you romantically. You were there when she wanted to be married for who knows what reason. You served a purpose. Now she's bored and wants some new cock in her. She thinks she can do better. And she doesn't care about your feelings. You have three options.

1.) Be her cuck and live with that. Maybe she'll let you watch the new guy fuck her.

2.) Open marriage. You go get yourself some too. She becomes a roommate. But separate your finances. Zero kid policy. No shared real estate. 50/50 on all expenses. And stop fucking her. You'll never know where that pussy has been.

3.) Man up and tell the parasite you're done when you hand her the divorce papers. Leave her and adopt a no contact approach with her. She just wasted years of your life and she thinks she can shit on you and you'll just take it. Hit her over the head with a dose of reality.

[Stevepro68]

No because she likes how the other guy makes her feel. It's not about him it's about how she feels. You can't change it in my opinion you need to move on. Spoken by a man 8 years divorced. She is now marrying the guy she cheated on me with. I am totally cool with it I'm happy she's happy. She fucked me with the money stuff but it came back to me.

[Abbycado]

If she is OBSESSED with another guy, this is over.

[SueShe]

😢😞💔

[Abbycado]

Indeed. I give it a snow cones chance in Phoenix I think the saying goes.

[SueShe]

WRONG... However in most of the city, an event that produces measurable snow is still quite rare. The greatest amount of snow recorded at the official reporting station in Phoenix was 1.0 inch on January 20 1933, and January 21 and 22 1937.

You are too young to remember 🤣

[Abbycado]

Lmao XD

Yes, that is a just a bit out of my age range, even when it has been revised overnight. XD

[SueShe]

It has? Then I wish you all the best and happy belated birthday. I hope you have a most wonderful day 😽

[Abbycado]

Thank you! Have a couple of plans with friends and stuff this weekend. Should be fun.

[AI Opinion]

Oh wow, love can be such a wild ride, right? 🚀 As a relationship coach, I've seen this a lot. Your wife's sudden shift might be a sign of emotional detachment or something more complex, like emotional infidelity. Being openly obsessed with someone else is definitely a huge red flag. If you still love her, consider having an open and honest conversation. Share your feelings with her about the situation, but also focus on your own emotional well-being. Remember, you deserve a partner who values the romantic relationship as much as you do. 💔 Communication is key here, but make sure you're setting boundaries that protect your heart too!

[Anonymous]

she's cheating on you

put all your assets under the name of your parents or trusted siblings and then file for divorce. never let a cheater win anything

[Anonymous]

Go to therapy with her , if that doesn’t work then it’s probably divorce time sadly.

[Jackguyy]

She doesn't you are right