Do we find beauty in the imperfections of those we love, for their hearts shine brighter than any flaw, making them the most enchanting in our eye?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes, if you can’t accept someone’s flaws then don’t expect them to accept yours, Love only grows in a relationship when 2 people choose each other and accept each other for who they are. Not one person on this planet is perfect , they might be perfect for you but only you. If someone says they are perfect, they are clearly talking out their ass lol. So if you want to experience true love , it’s best to treat someone the same way you want to be treated in return , it’s not always going to be perfect but it could be pretty damn close to perfect if you treat them the same way you want to be treated in return. Making each other your top priority is key to having a happy healthy relationship with someone. Because of your can’t choose your partner? Don’t expect them to choose you , it needs to go both ways for any relationship to work , Learning to remove selfishness from yourself for your partner makes it easier for your partner to do the same thing for you , sadly most relationships fail because people do not know how to remove selfishness from themselves , especially people that think their shit doesn’t stink and think they are never wrong. Having that type of selfish mindset will get you no where in a relationship period

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I don't believe in perfection in the first place...

but, I don't fall in love with the "bad things" either... I just don't mind them to a point, since I am no way near perfect myself either, lmao

anyway... I did love my exe's third hair nipple with a little bit of a tooth coming out of it

alice55 · Accepted Answer

well what society believe is a flaws may not be considered a flaw for most people beauty standard are just so weird and change all the tile

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Perfection is an often unattainable ideal. Imperfections are what make someone tangible, relatable, and authentically themselves.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the magic of love is all about embracing those little quirks, right? Imperfections are really the delicious sprinkles on the yummy ice cream of love. 🍦 When you're in love, those quirks make your partner even more captivating. Our hearts tend to focus on the shine, not the scratches. Love is like a great pair of glasses, letting us see the true beauty that lies within! 😍

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

We do  find beauty anywhere love is. However, a killjoy has to say a word: Beauty is not fulfillment, while romantic love can meet happiness, it can also be misguided, painful, unfair or somber. Because romantic love is a sentiment. Peace is another one, complementary but distinguishable (Did I ruin something? I hope not 😎)

Anonymous · Answer

Within reason. It always makes me laugh on here of the many women's posts I read and that none of them can EVER find a relationship that makes them happy. Yet you can never get it through thier heads the problem is typically with her.😆 Anyone you date they're going to have thier flaws. But it's your response to them the determines your happiness. I'm not saying stay with someone you CLEARLY not a match for. But don't be surprised that it never gets better if you do. I'll advise ANYONE (male or female) that biggest determinant of whether you be with someone is if your happy more often than unhappy when your with them. But if you're unhappy, all the time, with whoever you're with. Consider that THEY are not the problem!

This post may appear like it has nothing to do with your question. But it does! I'm simply saying half of a happy relationship is your attitude towards it. If you love someone there imperfections will actually be adorable.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Perfection does not exist , these imperfections that we all share give us color and character. Thenuances of personality , feature and form , these I look for in particular , for me it’s the obscure differences that make a person shine in friendship and in love.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Some of the traits that one person finds annoying or ugly, another person may find endearing or attractive.

Perfect is objectively speaking, very subjective.
You can be perfect for one person, but a nightmare for another.
So in that sense, yes, flaws can be beautiful perfection.

Everyone is going to have flaws, the laws of physics regarding opposing forces makes that certain.

Your advantages are your flaws, you have depth perception because you can't see in all directions at once, you have pain because you can feel pleasure, you can get exausted because you can use energy, you can see colors and shapes because half the spectrum is invisible to you so your aren't blinded by light overload.

Every thing you can do creates a thing you can't do, every form you have on your body creates both advantages and limits, beauty and ugliness.

Existence is all about tradeoffs, and affections are, like everything else, subject to this.

exitseven · Answer

This is exactly the way I see it. You have to love them and love their imperfections.

msg321 · Answer

Nobody is perfect so naturally if you love you love imperfection. You like somethings in an imperfection

Sono83 · Answer

Often times little "imperfections" are attractive because they are distinctive. Think of Cindy Crawford's mole or dimples, which are defects of the cheek muscles.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, some people just look perfect, even if they have small imperfections.

Jay-_- · Answer

I wish my crush would see me like that. Lol

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

When I love, I never look for or find fault.

Grond21 · Answer

If we see them clearly, then yes, absolutely

Anonymous · Answer

Yes!!!

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