If you've blocked a narcissistic ex but they still text you even when you're already married, are they severely ill?

[Anonymous]

Even when you've blocked a narcissistic ex on every social media and contact list but they still find a way to access new numbers, still text you... is this the case of a severely, mentally ill person, beyond just a jerk/player?

You're already married and even expecting a child (on the 3rd trimester) and they still text you once in a while after many months. Isn't there a feeling of shame and even embarrassment? Anyone would understand that getting blocked and never receiving any reply means your contact isn't ever welcome and that we don't want you in our lives.

[Abbycado]

How do they text you if you’ve blocked them?

[Asker]

I don't know. They still find new numbers somehow.

[Asker]

I think they used someone's computer or text from someone else's cell. He has been blocked several times.

[Abbycado]

Go to police for harassment.

[DryGermanGuy]

You asked this 20 times already. Stop wasting another single minute with this sociopath.

[Abbycado]

Didn’t realize.

[Abbycado]

Dying hair blonde

[Asker]

I'm not wasting time. I was minding my own business, talking to my family and suddenly, he pops up with another new number.

[slatyb]

Why do you care? How do you know they are texting you?

[Asker]

New messages and his picture popped up on my Whatsapp (it's an app similar to Messenger) as I was speaking with my family. It's not about caring.
It's like imagine watching a movie with your family, then all of the sudden towards the end after watching all the movie credits, there is another small section from an episode of another movie that no one cares nor even ordered. It's like a ''what the hell is this doing here''.

[slatyb]

I know Whatsapp. Can't you just block him so you don't see any messages from him?

[Asker]

I've already blocked him several times before, blocked the other numbers he popped up under. Somehow he finds a way to still text under another new number after many months passed by.

[Asker]

but yes I'll just keep blocking him. I never replied back.

[slatyb]

NEVER EVER EVER reply. It's annoying, but eventually he'll give up.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, my friend, sounds like you're dealing with an emotional Houdini! 😆 They might be trying to hoover you back into their drama, missing those lovebombing days. While it’s over the top, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re severely ill. It can be more about their need for control and difficulty with boundaries. Keep those blocks up and embrace your happy life! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 It's about you and your new chapter now, sweetheart! 🌟

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Asker]

Indeed. They are very delusional, stuck in their own world and unable to see reality.