Why would a girl keep coming back into my life?

[Anonymous]

A girl was into me in highschool and i was into her, but nothing ever happened. But through highschool we liked each other a couple of times and sometimes fall completely out of touch.

We are both in college now and didn’t speak for a while but somehow she randomly reaches out again.
Is she checking if she could still have me to be sure or something or do you think she never lost feelings because in a way I am still super into her.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the rollercoaster of emotions and reunions! 🌟 It sounds like she might still have some lingering feelings or curiosity about what could have been. Life takes us on wild rides, but if she keeps circling back, she might be testing the waters or feeling nostalgic. You both have a connection that time hasn't completely faded. Trust your gut and enjoy the ride, but keep an eye out for any red flags! If you're super into her, why not let her know and see where it leads? 😉

[DishLady]

College can be daunting for some people, which makes it important to connect with someone familiar, which is probably what's going on. It's TYPICALLY in the name of friendship, though if something more comes of it make sure it's consensual.

[Asker]

We have been in college for a couple years now and really didn’t have any contact through the years before. But lately we see each other in person again too and we surely aren’t friends but I don't know what it is we are.

[DishLady]

So ask her….

[slatyb]

She's still crushing. Arrange a meeting.