If a woman won't leave me alone after ghosting me for 10 years why did she came back all of a sudden?

[CP0729__]

Everyday I tell her to leave me alone she keeps harrassing me im so tired of the situation it like she gets her friends to spy on me remind you she rejected me since 2013 why she won't leave me alone why can't she just move on if i dont like her anymore please someone give me a good answer what do I do if she just keep using me cuz her boyfriend trying to steal my song lyrics that i write she been leading me on for 10 years i gave up on her what to do how do I stop her from texting me I'm just sad asf cuz she been doing this for a long time

[DaveJord]

If she has been leading you on for 10 years... then I will say you have been leading yourself on for 10 years and she is only playing part in your life that she has always played... and maybe just now you are waking up to the bullshit.

You don't want her texts... then block her. Here you are 10 years later, and you are still accepting her texts? Thats all on you bro.

When I have someone, I want nothing to do with, then I ignore them 100%. No matter what they do to me, I ignore them. Good bad or indifferent. I ignore them because I am done with it. But I get the feeling you are not doing that.

So, for some people they do this, because they have childhood trauma and abandonment issues. So do not think she has not latched on to you for a reason. But at the same time do not fool yourself into thinking her reason are for good reasons. She is doing it because she has power over you, and you are feeding into it.

And on some level, you have been complacent with it. So, stop doing that by 100% ignoring her. Over time she will get tired of it, and she will find a different victim that gives her the same level of attention that you have been giving her for the last 10 years. But she will not do that for as long as you keep giving her what she wants.

[Anonymous]

Treat her the same way she does to you, she'll become inanimate.

You do so, so that she stops. Not out of revenge. Your priority is to have peace; less annoyance, not revenge.
But treating people the same way the do to us, is suprisingly stupidly effecacious.

When I say treat them the same way they do, doesn't mean copy paste their words or way the speak. But the message and concept relayed throughout communication.

[etsylo]

you should probably file a restraining order from all the harassment she's doing. you could block her, but she might find her way back which is really annoying, unwanted, and dangerous. she's getting out of hand.

[sheikalana]

She’s delusional. Run away from her. She doesn’t know what she wants.

[Anonymous]

She's toxic. She doesn't really want you. She wants your interest. In her twisted mind, nothing has really changed. And if she keeps dangling herself out there in her mind she'll re-capture your interest. She will eventually give up. You just have to outlast her. I dealt with the same problem man. It took 2 years for her to quit. And I'm still not completely convinced she's totally gone.

[Anonymous]

She probably got knocked up by some bad Chad then he ditched her. Now she’s struggling to let someone, she’s also struggling financially so that’s she’s hitting you up.

[smne35]

Don't say leave me alone ask her what's up, what do you want, I mean you want to know answer to something ask the source closed mouth don't get fed just saying

[KrakenAttackin]

Document her undesirable contact and ask the prosecutor for a restraining order.

[DextroShade]

Block her on everything, block her friends too as they don't add any value to your life.

[captain_voidwalker]

Step one buy a gun.
Step two make ot very clear there will be "consequences " if she dosen't knock it off

[Benplus10]

Empty threat.. very nice. And if she won’t leave you alone? You going to shoot her? Spend the rest of your life being someone’s bitch in prison, where all you can do is re-live every moment leading up to the worst decision you have ever made? How about an alternative.. make it perfectly clear how you feel about her, by telling her in person, not through a third party or via text. Change your number, ignore her. Move

[BrightBubblyKat]

Sounds dramatic. Simple. Just ignore her.

[Cute_potato01]

10 .. years thats harassment

[Fireguy17]

she is coo coo for coco puffs.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Just block her.