If your spouse cheated on you with their underaged student (a kid), isn't this the worst cheating ever?

[Marblesxoxo]

Scenario:

We're in a long-term relationship or married for years. Then you discovered they had an affair. However, the person they cheated with isn't even an adult. Instead it's a 13-16 year-old kid and one of their students.

They aren't just a cheater but a monster right there, a sick child molester. Would this be the worse type of cheating ever?

There was a case like this.

An Ariozona female teacher ended up getting 20 years for having sex with a 13 year-old boy, her student.

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The boy's father was super pissed off and hurt. The parents immediately reported her. I'm glad he didn't buy into the ''you got lucky to have landed a young woman'' disgusting double standard.

[Finchie40]

It’s definitely up there , and I would make sure they were arrested for having sex with a minor

[Marblesxoxo]

Indeed it's disgusting. Not only are they a cheater but literally a criminal since it's a crime having sex with a minor.

[Simslover92]

It's very sick and definitely up there as one of the worst ways to cheat. But I think cheating with family is the worst because it's like you not just broke up a marriage but family too.

[Marblesxoxo]

yeah both are disgusting. Though the one about the married teacher having sex with a 13 year-old (but she met the boy a year prior... so he was 12 when things started... ewww) boy seems beyond gross. That's literally a pedophile and that's not just cheating but a serious crime.

[Simslover92]

Yeah I'm definitely not denying that. That's God awful and disgusting sick depraved. I don't understand people who do that to kids. Like what goes through your mind to think it's okay to molest or rape a child? It's just beyond sick.

[Marblesxoxo]

yeah I don't understand their mentality either. What's so great about a kid? They're immature, not college age (19 or in their early 20's), rely on their parents and they're just a kid.
The good thing is they're not liked in prisons. A child molester or rapist gets beaten in male prison and in a female prison, she gets mainly ostracized but at times smacked or punched.

[Agape93]

Yeap and they'd be dead.

[Marblesxoxo]

True. I would reported them to the authorities too. They didn't just cheat but destroy a child's innocence. The boy was actually 12 when things started. Sick pedophiles.

[Agape93]

That's why they all need to die screaming.

[OlderAndWiser]

This is like asking is it better to have your right hand amputated or to go blind?

[Marblesxoxo]

yet among all other cheating (assuming with an adult), they end up destroying families and trust but this one is beyond just cheating. It's literally a pedophile. So they cheated and can also go to prison for that.

[AI Opinion]

My purpose on Girls Ask Guys is to offer insights into relationships with a splash of humor and energy! You're absolutely right—this situation isn't just about cheating; it's a serious crime and a massive breach of trust. It's not just a red flag; it's a full-on crimson carnival. Your partner isn't just being unfaithful; they're exploiting a minor, which is beyond monstrous. This is way more than a "bad choice"; it's about legality and morality. Love should never be an excuse for violating such boundaries. I hope the authorities handle these situations with the appropriate seriousness. Stay safe and prioritize your well-being. 💔✨

[oldpigg]

Most pedophiles are women, which is why most primary school teachers are women. However, since we live in a matriarchal society, female pedophiles never go to prison. When I was a child, I was harassed by female teachers on several occasions.

[Marblesxoxo]

I'm sorry to hear you've undergone that. I really hope you end up reporting this because they can still get locked up for this. Child molestation has no expiration date.

[Danny_dan92]

One of them.




My ex cheated on me by sleeping with her sister’s husband

[Marblesxoxo]

Ouch. That's nasty. Did you end up having kids with her? If so, that makes things more complicated.

[Danny_dan92]

No I didn’t

[Danny_dan92]

I wasn’t married to her by the way. But was close to proposing just answered a portion of your question

[Marblesxoxo]

Thanks goodness it didn't proceed towards marriage nor having kids. You got saved from a terrible partner with low morals.
But people that actually destroy the innocents, sick child molesters... that has to be the lowest of the low. They aren't just a trashy cheater but literally a registered sex offender by then, a child molester. I wouldn't want someone like that as my neighbor when they get released from prison.

[Danny_dan92]

I agree.

For whatever reason I still have feelings for her mainly cause I would never wish ill will on anyone.

But despite that I could never ever see myself being with her again, that being said as long as I’m single my window (so to speak) is open to her, as in there have been times where she would reach out and most recently she tried to win me back by saying she misses me and our sex. I told her I don't know what she expects from me.

For several reasons, the main one being what she did but even if I did want her back… she ended up having a kid with another man after she left me. So that basically sealed the deal

[Kaneki05]

Based father. Yup would say so.

[Marblesxoxo]

Indeed. To me, a pedophile (regardless of gender) deserves to be locked up for a long time. That teacher had other adult men to cheat with but does it with a kid. Sick.

[MrChinaski]

Agreed.

[Marblesxoxo]

yeah, they didn't just cheated but they're literally a criminal and sick pedophile