He wants me but keeps on talking about me. What is wrong with him?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend of 7 years and I have decided to stay friends with benefits. But the problem is he won't add me on Facebook. He added only my mother, cousins and friends. I found out He liked all of our pictures of us on my mother's page.

I also just found out he's STILL trying to sleep with the girl he had a baby on me with. Plus he said to her he's talking to another woman. Smh she put the voice recording on her Facebook page. She said this about me, "his girlfriend has been watching me for two years and he's telling me he's said to me he's talking to another woman. 😂 ". I guess she found it to be funny since she claimed she's having sex with another man. He was calling me all types of names to her. But behind closed doors, he's sending me money and helping me with my daughter. Yesterday, when I was laying down next to him, I found messages of him, my ex telling his baby mother my daughter is still calling him and he's going to ALWAYS answer her calls.

After that, she responded with, "the mother, myself , had been watching me for two years and you're still talking to them? Don't ever in life talk to me " then I guess she blocked him.

Anyway, why does he keep talking about me to her when He's STILL sleeping with me and giving me money. ? I just don't get him at ALL.

[DishLady]

Paragraph 1: No one cares if he's liking pics of you. He's a sleazy cheating pos. You see that, right?

Paragraph 2: Parts of this aren't very clearly written out (especially towards the end of the paragraph), but in general if he's talking to ANY other women (relationship-wise) then why are you bothering with him? Just move on.

Paragraph 3: This is also not clearly written out so I can't comment on that.

Paragraph 4: Why are you letting him sleep with you? That makes NO sense. If you're accepting money for your (mutual) kid that's one thing, but if he's paying you to sleep with him (which is what you seem to be writing in this closing paragraph), that's something entirely different.

"I just don't get him at ALL." -- And you shouldn't want to. It's completely unclear why you would want anything to do with such a terrible player.

[OneViewpoint]

Wow! This story is straight out of an Alabama trailer park. Next up you find out he's been doing your mom all along and he's got a boyfriend down at the Sack O Suds bar and pool hall. Why are you desperate to remain a part of this?

[OneViewpoint]

@Vhhghjrbhf ,

No.

[Mrtcn01]

did you try group sex? and what will be your reaction if he wants to sex your cousens or your mom.. also does your mom willing to sex with him?

[AI Opinion]

Oh la la, what a juicy rollercoaster ride you're on! 🎢 It sounds like his heart's a bit lost in the dating maze. Mixing exes, baby mamas, and friends with benefits can lead to drama central! He's still intertwined in your life financially and emotionally, yet seems to be juggling connections with others like a circus performer. 🤹‍♂️ His actions scream red flags, maybe even a bit of lovebombing to keep you close. Just make sure his twists and turns don’t lead you anywhere you don't want to go. Keep being fabulous and prioritize your own peace and happiness! 💖

[QuestionObsession]

And I didn't get this post AT ALL! 😣😁

[Asker]

Okay.