Would you like your SO if s/he were a worm?

[msg321]

I wanted to ask this classical question on GAG

Yes, I'd still love him/her

I would leave him/her

I would stomp him/her

A total of 8 votes were cast: 5 girls and 3 guys. See detailed results

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Your So will not be a worm. S/he will still think and feel like a human. The only difference is his/her physical appearance will be just like a worm's physical appearance so don't write 's/he won't be my SO anymore"

[SteveSmith1985]

I wouldn't. They are no longer my S/O if they're a worm. The essence of what I cared about cannot be contained in a worm. That worm is not my S/O. That's not who is inside that worm-brain. It can't be.

[EmmiL]

@SteveSmith1985 this question cracked me up lol

[SteveSmith1985]

@EmmiL I was confused by it being called "a classical question." But you didn't answer it?

[EmmiL]

I can't answer it

[SteveSmith1985]

@EmmiL Why not? Too silly? Because your single? (It's ok, we're in a world where people become worms. I also was talking about a hypothetical significant other)

[EmmiL]

Yes silly

[SteveSmith1985]

@EmmiL hahaha, I just laughed so hard at that.

[StarWarGirl]

No, then he weren't my SO. I don't like worms.

[msg321]

he would be still your SO. I mean he would think and feel like a human. He could also talk to you. Same person. There is only one difference. His physical body is a worm. Same soul in a worm. Think this like that.

[StarWarGirl]

No matter a worm has a godly soul the best thoughts and emotions in them, if I'm not going to even look towards them, if I'm not going to communicate with them, if he isn't able to make me feel loved, if he can't act romantically towards me, if I'm in need and he can't help me any way, then why would I consider any such creature to make my SO?

Worms aren't visually appealing to me. I feel the yuck feeling seeing that. How can I make someone as my SO with that feeling? It's contradictory.

I'm not so great to be only giver in relationship. Actually I had plan to be forever single if I'm not going to get someone who will be there for me as well.

[msg321]

Like I wrote before assume that he could still talk to you. That means even if he is physically a worm He could show his love to you by saying something's like "I love you, honey, you are my forever love e. t. c."

[StarWarGirl]

Simply words aren't enough for me.

I try to tell you this with possible practical example.

Suppose my SO were handicapped (so not not able to do anything for me except talk just like a worm and dependent upon me for most of things ( and having leprosy all over his body. Whole body covered with sticky rotten kind of skin ( as i do feel worm as same how I would feel seeing a person having such skin all over body).

He is the same person. But on meeting him I'll not be able to look at him even with open clear heart I'll have yuck feeling.

Ofcourse he can say I love you but how he is going to prove his love for me and how to believe he truly loves me if he isn't able to show me through his actions?

Why should I consider to make someone as such as my SO who only and only going to increase my burden in my life? I'm not so great.

I'm normal human being who have normal needs and requirements. I can't be so great to do such social work for everyone who loves me.

No matter how great is the person in his thoughts I want a life partner to share my life my problems with me equally and sometimes even a little bit more when I am needed

I want someone on whom I can get dependent upon also.

[msg321]

Yeah as a worm because of his physical body he would completely dependent on you. Don't get me wrong. You are free to give whatever answer you want. I just wanted to explain the meaning of what I meant with this question to be clear. Then ok I received your answer. He wouldn't be your SO anymore but what would you do to him if he turned into a worm? I mean would you keep him safety in a cage/aquarium/jar e. t. c. and feed him or would you just leave him to the nature (that could be dangerous for him) and
go to your home or would you end his misery with your shoe?

[StarWarGirl]

If after falling into love and relationship, after making such a great bond such a great connection with him, if he then only turns into a worm ofcourse I'll have him and I will protect him

Just like after having relationship and after having such bond, no matter how ill he would become, get bed ridden, get ugly like get burnt whole body in some accident, still I'll keep loving him and will stay with him.

I'm not the kind of person to leave my SO when they need me. I'm committed for all good days as well as for his bad days.

Yes it will be tough for me. Toughest still I'm never leaving him or his side ever. He is my forever.

[msg321]

I see yeah you are a nice and loyal girl. Then I guess he will be your pet worm anymore. Former boyfriend, new pet worm. Good transition 😊

[StarWarGirl]

Yeh he would 🙂

[sirderpsalot123]

No. .