What do you think about men who cheat their old wives with young women?

[EmmiL]

I have friends in their 40s to 60s who frequently have lovers in their 20s.

One example, one of my mates is in his 40s. His wife is 58. He complains behind her back how fat and wrinkly she is, despite her trying to take care of herself, she still looks old, she is a cranky Karen, and whines about everything she doesn't like. He can't stand her sometimes.

Guess what? He got himself a young fit 20 year old on side, who he relates to more. They have great sex, and she is there when his wife goes Karen.

[OneViewpoint]

I think it's totally justified. Why should a guy give up his life for a miserable "Karen". If she has quit on the relationship, why should he still be trying? Kudos to your friend for finding a solution for himself.

[Shiprex]

I think everyone wants to be with someone who makes them feel good. His wandering eyes may be what causes his wife to be all "karen" and be less pleasant to be around sending him further into others arms.

[AI Opinion]

Lovebombing with a side of betrayal! 🚨 Cheating is a huge red flag that screams unresolved personal issues, regardless of age differences. Relationships thrive on communication, not on finding a younger model to dodge the 'Karen' vibes. Emotional depth and genuine connection trump superficial attraction. He may think he's in paradise, but trust issues won't age well. It's time for introspection and some heart-to-heart conversations before ghosting real responsibilities. You're playing with fire, and eventually, someone's going to get burned. 🔥

[Finchie40]

I think they should end it with their wives, if they are clearly that unhappy , cheating on her and going back to her like nothing happened is fucked up and wrong in so many ways I understand people cheat for different reasons , but have the dignity and respect to divorce and separate , so she can move on with her life as well. Sadly most people want their cake and want to learnt to , just how this selfish society works

[AviatorTom]

Cheating is wrong, but I give them credit for going young. 😎

[PeachyPie93]

The wife should shoot both him and the little slut.. Prison as an old bitch wouldn't be any worse than being married to an old ugly pathetic loser who cheats anyways :D

[Jove79]

Why go to prison for an old pathetic cheating loser? Chilling on the beach enjoying life with some cold drinks🍹, with someone new sounds better 😇

[PeachyPie93]

@Jove79 I'm only just joking around.. but this person is just making rage bait or trying to act like younger woman are superior to older woman but I do find it funny when trash bags get their lives cut short :P

[EmmiL]

Younger women are more desired by older men. This is a fact rooted in biology.

@Jove79 lol at you calling him old.

I am surprised my post didn't attract more Karen's out of their caves.

[PeachyPie93]

A lot of old men don't want kids because they already raised theirs and can't be bother to have more, so what is the biology besides men being dirty old perverts into young sluts?

[EmmiL]

It influences their attraction. It's not just about making kids. Old women are wrinkly and gross lol an older man will want a woman if he wants sex it makes sense.

[PeachyPie93]

LOL and so are old men? Wtf? 😂 Their is no way you are actually female..
You don't think older woman would rather a younger guy who looks cute and has abs over an older guy with a ponch? Men and woman both can get younger or older so I don't get what your point is? The fact young woman would waste their beauty and youth on an old man with shit stamina and low libido is beyond me.. Sleeping with a married man doesn't make you better than anyone it just makes you a free hoe with low standards..

[PeachyPie93]

*there

[Jove79]

@peachy, she’s right, us guys prefer younger women, they’re likely to have little to no baggage, and are likely to be fertile to build a family.

My uncle become a father at 52, he married a younger woman, and not an older woman his for a reason.. 🙏

An older guy wanting a younger woman doesn’t make him a pervert unless he’s in his 60’s and she’s 19.. same goes for a woman, but women usually like maturity and style over immature young men with youthful boy faces

[PeachyPie93]

@Jove79 But that is what I don't get, since older men also have baggage and stuff so to want someone without it just seems completely shallow, but to each their own..

Considering at 50 most woman can't really have kids because menopause and the fact people shouldn't really be having kids after 50, I suppose that makes sense.. I think it is dumb to have kids that late tho because when your kid is 10 they are gonna be 60 and probably will only live until the kid is 20..

A guy old enough to be able to have fathered you is a pervert in my eyes.. same as for woman..

[Jove79]

An older guy who’s seeking a relationship with a younger woman for a family, most likely won’t have baggage on his end..

An older woman will not seek a young man to build a family with.. because she can’t.. and that’ll be weird. but a man could.. it just works for men.

And I thought the same thing, I always thought about what if I’m old new father.. I didn’t like the idea, glad I got all that out the way. Now that I’m single father, chicks dig that too, but that’s an entirely different topic.

[EmmiL]

@Jove79 that's wrong, lot of old woman want young boys, just as men do.

@PeachyPie93 I never said any of that plus having sex doesn't mean they waste their youth. That's just bullshit.

[Jove79]

@EmmiL I’m pretty sure a lot of older women would want a younger man, but they won’t go out seeking one. And it’ll mainly be for sex with a youthful energetic person.. that’s all they have to offer, besides sleeping in their parents home.

Where as an older man, will need a younger woman to procreate with and take her under his wing.

[EmmiL]

@Jove79 lol that's funny. You should research these kind of relationships and dynamics, how they go. It's very common for older women to seek young men.

[Jove79]

@EmmiL Ok, older women go out seeking young men, cool! (That’s actually good) But everything else I said stands true, about the reasons why they find a younger partner.

[EmmiL]

@Jove79 they both just want sex, occasionally a relationship but it's less common in my experience

[Joshydavid25]

Bro should've thought about that when he married a woman 10+ years older than he is.. Now he's out here cheating, and breaking those vows.. People truly don't know what marriage is for..

[EmmiL]

A made up thing

[Joshydavid25]

Everything is "made up" according to that logic.. Doesn't make it any less real..

[genericname85]

it's the same as women "having an affair" with men more handsome and successfull than their husband. they are low live bottom of the barrel terrible quality people. that's all there is to it.

[Oldschool1981]

I have a double standard opinion about this. I'm a guy and I think we should stay loyal to our wives but I think it's perfectly fine if women want to sleep with other guys

[EmmiL]

That's really weird

[AydenHazor]

I don't approve of anyone cheating ever. If you're not happy in your relationship, get out of it before moving on

[SteveSmith1985]

Right? I don't understand why some people have trouble with this.

[EmmiL]

@SteveSmith1985 there are lot of reasons like finances, kids, loneliness, jobs etc

[SteveSmith1985]

None of those are reasons that justify cheating You stay faithful, or you leave. There is no such thing as a reason to cheat. Not ever. (the only exception being an abusive boyfriend you're afraid to leave).

[AydenHazor]

Having been cheated on in several relationships, there is no justification in my mind to cheat. Get out of the relationship you're in of you want to be with someone else.

If you're in an open/poly relationship with the consent of your partner it's a different story, as it is then not cheating

[EmmiL]

@SteveSmith1985 that's your opinion

[astralpro300]

may God kill me at that age if i still have libido at that age, no maam i want to live the rest of my life in peace not hornines!

[TracyWants]

A lot of them do and the worst part is they don't say anything about their wife or lie about being divorced. So I see them as scumbags

[SteveSmith1985]

They're awful humans beings.

[yotaman99]

Honestly cheating wrong, but I like a woman that cheats on me and reminds me of how small I am

[serious]

Whatever the reason maybe it is cheap.

[AnonAndrew]

Any man who cheats is an asshole.

[chrissykerdock]

probably happend in the cavemen days too

[Jennz6]

I don’t blame her

[EmmiL]

You mean him?

[PaleDale]

Is masturbation cheating?

[EmmiL]

No...

[Bklynbadboy12]

Anyone that cheats is not a good person

[jahaims]

Sad, and pathetic

[EmmiL]

In what way