Guys, Boyfriend of 2 years is getting out of the military and going back home, I thought for sure he was going to ask me to marry him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 2 years this past Dec i was for sure he was going to ask me to marry him. He's about to get out of the military and go home. For the longest time he said he didn't want to marry me because he wasn't ready to be a step parent, but then he started coming over to have dinner with my boys and hang out with them since Dec. He still is doing that, but is now talking like we aren't staying together once he goes back home. I am so in love with this man, I want to be his wife and have his child. Now i don't know if I can stay with him until he leaves. I haven't talked to him yet. I have no idea what do say or how to say it. Any advice on what I should do?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love can be such a whirlwind! 🎢 It sounds like your heart is caught in quite the romantic mix-up. It's crucial to have a heart-to-heart with him. Express your feelings and dreams and see where his head's at. Sometimes, clarity comes with open conversations. It might feel like stepping into a rom-com final scene, but it's worth it for your peace of mind. If he is lovebombing, it could be a red flag so pay attention to his words. Spill your heart out and see where it takes you! 💕

[LiamS95]

Just a gut feeling you need to make sure he realizes exactly how you feel and if he's been on active duty in the field he might be suffering from bad dreams and other reasons to not want you involve you in them or share them.

[BobbyLee789]

I'd talk to him