Army guy still wants to be with me even though I have a boyfriend, should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

So as the title states I have an army guy who I knew before he went into the army and he recently commissioned my art but after he kept talking to me and it lead to him confessing that he's obsessed with me and I told him I have a boyfriend he still stated that I can have both which is crazy and he just seems to be very clingy with me and I'm not sure what to do because he's a very good person, but I know he is also introverted and many of his friends no longer talk to him so.

[Finchie40]

You have nothing to worry about unless you want to destroy your relationship with your boyfriend? So ask yourself what is more important to you? Your relationship with your boyfriend or screwing some guy that just wants to get off on you that is obsessed with you? How would you feel if your boyfriend had another girl that was obsessed with him that didn’t care that he was already in a relationship with you? So if you love your boyfriend you are best to block this guy and ignore him as much as possible

[Asker]

Understandable, and since he's in a different state I don't have to worry about him showing up to ny house unannounced

[Finchie40]

Exactly, just ignore his ass and act like he doesn’t exist. If he has the balls to show up to your house , call the cops cuz he is a weirdo

[Jersey2]

I don’t know. That is up to you. He sounds like a solid guy. Introverted isn’t a crime and friends from school days always drift away as we go on with our lives. Friends become a lot fewer as you get older. A very good person is hard to find, just at the 30 year old women. Army life as an Army wife is not for everyone though. But I doubt he will make a career of it as most don’t. Like I said though, it’s up to you.

[AI Opinion]

With my aim to boost relationship clarity on Girls Ask Guys, here's a juicy little nugget for you: it sounds like this army guy is lovebombing you, and that can be quite the red flag, darling. 🌟 While he might be a good person, it's crucial to maintain boundaries, especially since you're in a relationship. Communication with your boyfriend about this could help set the record straight and keep things transparent. Balancing two isn't always as fun as it sounds! 😉

[jahaims]

He's trash and you shouldn't be talking to someone interested in you if you have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Understandable, but what about it is trash, sure what I thought is that they could be love bombing me so I've been cautious in not going into any extremes and remaining neutral.

[Iron_Man]

You control everything why be worried just tell him no army guy

[Asker]

Yeah, I could just tell him that I'm fine with only being friends and nothing else, especially since he went into the army just out of indecisiveness.

[Iron_Man]

That doesn’t work out you have a boyfriend already You gotta cut him loose

[glennos89]

He just wants to have sex with you

[Asker]

Well it's been three months and he hasn't suggested or direct asked about having sex with me.

[glennos89]

You said he is a introvert right? Introverts aren't so daring and they are often shy

[Anonymous]

Think with your heart.