He later told me in sex that he love me. And he wants us to see each other more often.
Why does he want that when he plans to get married next year?
hahahahaha. You are a typical woman, over analyzing. Stop that. All of you. You can't stop it. It's in your dna.
He's a fool for saying it. Maybe not. Maybe not as it's been a year. I can't say. All I know is every time I tell women something along these lines, she gets crazy and uppity. She'll blow my cock but if I try to show interest for something deeper, ha. So I say he's a fool for saying it as opposed to just roping you in non verbally. But that's just my experience.
Why the hell do you even have to ask? You are like Kelly from the office. Watch that if you haven't.
Here: If you love him and see yourself as compatible (don't over think that either), say yes or just be happy. Just be happy. Women don't fucking blush anymore. Fucking blush or something. Fuck!
I think this guy is finally starting to figure you out. You're a little too literal - I think he's being both serious and teasing. He looked at you and smiled after talking about his future wife because he was trying to impress upon you that he wants you to be his future wife. Though he may have also known that you would spin it in your mind a few thousand times. Usually it's the woman who does that to the guy.
Yeah. Thanks I needed this. If something is usually the case, it probably should be the case for me and you- we're probably not exceptions. There are exceptions to that though lol. Specifically, women should be talking about the future probably, not men. I have always ruined it there even when I had a good thing going- and I wasn't feeling emotionally weak or needy, but the fallout left me confused and feeling that way. I said the L word in sex, although just with one person she was a good person, and I talk about the future and consider a relationship. Strange that you can't do this at least today but I didn't make the rules. It does make them feel wanted, validated and all that jazz, which sounds good to a 5 year old but in practice well you know the plot
In german there's a word for 'being silent'). Schweigen. Ich muss nach dem Sex Schweigen, usw.
Mabee he meant get married with you, you look like a very attractive woman, men would die for, do you have a lover your self. Think men like to tell those things as the then seem more obligated and responsible. Well not that they probably are cheating there girlfriend of course, but in a way cheating with a guy feel a little tempting and make one feel worthy in a way, call it flirt with bonus... I'd probably get haters now, for telling how things might be IRL
Congratulations, girl! You're going to receive a proposal soon. Unless, you are a third wheel or kind of a mistress...
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I think a strong guy will be more decisive and direct in getting what he wants. It is only guys who are not confident that will give hints to the girl and expect the girl to be able to read the hint and take the lead. If he wants to get married with you, he should propose to you. Not smile at you and said he plans to get married. Beside, getting married involves two person, it is not a person's decision. It is not when he says that he wants to get married, and then magically he get married the next year. He needs the girl's consent as well.
For example, if you are the president of a country, and in a meeting with the president of another country. You want to sign a deal with that other country. Will you smile at the president and said in a year's time, I will sign the deal? No, you do not do that. You got to go to the president of the other country, bring up the idea of the deal with him or her, and then ask if he or she is interested in signing the deal.
Sorry if I am being harsh, but I think you need to know this.
Either he wants to marry you, or he is asking you to continue to be his side piece when he marries another woman.
Also, how many guys are you currently sleeping with? You've mentioned this guy who you've been with for about a year, and then in your other posts, you've mentioned this other guy who you've been with for over 2 years. It's very confusing to keep track of all the guys on your various posts, lol.
He just want sex not marriage stop giving him sex his original colours will shown too you...
Saying I love u at the time of sex is just too assure you that please u don't goo anywhere else...
Rest you are smart I love u is said without sex kissing on your forehead that's love
I think you should start expressing what you want in life and see if it is compatible with what he wants. This way you both know for sure if you guys are the one for each other.
Ok you are sleeping with and seeing a married man!! That is fu**ed up and needs to stop now! There is no excuse for it.
Geezus, what are you doing fucking around with a dude in a relationship. You are gross.
He is not in relationship. He is single
He was checking your reaction.
Do you feel that he is husband and your future babies father material for you.
Or is he just a Friend with benefits to you?
You really need to decide and stop stringing him along if he isn't.
You’ve been seeing each other a year, how about a radical idea? ASK him!
Sounds like he doesn't realise he is being to pushy an you need to point out your side an let him know your feelings if you dint say you want that then sounds like he is a bit controlling
Because the guy wants to marry you that’s why he asked if you loved him
He was testing you, now he. Is. Going to make his move and squat at your house and be lazy man husband love you
there are a lot of implications with this, i suppose that he wants to get married to you. let him come to you and explain this. all information is always better from the houses mouth
Himena does he has a gf? Are u 2 just NSA FWB? Cuz if he doesn't he obviously was referring to YOU
This guy is shit.
If he loves you then why he's marrying someone else
Ask him who is going to marry flat out ! I doubt he will say oh I'm going to marry someone else. are you still going to have sex with him. ?
He wants to engage in casual relationship with you even after his marriage.
His loss your gorgeous he just don't know yet trust me that yr thing is something just to hold off
He is investing in u. Do u want this relation? Let's hear out what you want?
He wants to marry you is prolly what that smile means in this very specific situation!🙄
It seems like it
Okay, same procedure as every "why" question: What do you hope to hear?
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