Why is the mom of my boyfriend calling him three times a day?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

Mother of my live in partner keeps calling him and I'm getting annoyed

Problem/Goal: My live in partner's mom at first was in good relations with me pero ever since she backstabbed the girlfriend of my boyfriend's brother, i am afraid she will do it to me.

Context: for context the girlfriend of the brother gives her medicines, gives her tv and all she needs pero she backstabs her still. What I did, I ignored what she said and went to talk to the girlfriend. I realized the mom of my boyfriend does not seem to be grateful at all.

Lately she wants to go to the pool but I ignored her.

She calls to check if we went out. Parang walang privacy. Gets ko naman na lonely siya pero dapat sana may pagkakaaabalahan siya ndi yung tinitingnan kung gumala ba kami or ndi. Then nagpapabili ng medicines. Noong February 14 mismo hearts day, she got upset we went to the beach without her.

Also, my boyfriend has brothers and stays with her so why is she not talking to them. She calls my boyfriend 2 to 3 times a day.

Previous attempts: i try to be good to her Lately she uploaded a fb story of my boyfriend's photo. My boyfriend said it's the first time her mom posted him.

[AviatorTom]

Why does that bother you? It's about him and his mother. Let him deal with it, and stop trying to control things that don't directly affect you. It either doesn't bother him or he's learned to put up with it and prevent further issues within the family.

[bowenw]

It sounds like she wants to control him and who he has for a girlfriend. I think you could be right that she will try to backstab you if she does not like you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Is she still calling him often? Have you asked him why she is calling?

[DishLady]

She calls him that often bc she’s insecure that her bouncing baby boy is with someone. With mothers/mother-in-laws like that they aren’t happy till the couple has broken up.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some love dust on your relationship! What you’re experiencing sounds like a red flag of possessiveness or boundary issues. It seems his mom might be clinging to him a bit much and overlooking boundaries. That constant communication could mean she’s feeling lonely or maybe needs more attention from her other kids too. But remember, this situation is more about your boyfriend and his mom sorting things out. Have a friendly heart-to-heart chat with him; maybe he can work some magic and set those boundaries. You'll charm your way through this! ✨

[itsannalee]

Just date an orphan next time

[Anonymous]

She's just worried about him, it's normal.

[eagle1951]

hmmm momfeeling leftv out or jealous