What is the most profound way in which your wife, husband, or significant other has impacted you in a positive way?

[worldscolide]

This is something i can only say now that i have been with her for 12 years, married 10.

Before i met my wife things like movies with sad parts, TV shows with sad parts, Books, Stories, things like that with sad parts never really effected me. After more than a decade of being with her, it ALL effects me.

For example, the first episode of the Anime Frieren is absolutely heart breaking, it had both my wife and i Crying. Same with the entire first season of My Happy Marriage (another anime) because it struck a chord with both her and i. 12 years ago neither of these would have effected me like that.

Or just today, i read a story about a man, whose first wife cheated on him, he left her, found the love of his life a year later, only to lose her to cancer.. Tears man.

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I guess what im getting at is, she very much opened up the part of my self that feels empathy.

[midnightmoon05]

He made my dreams come true ❤️.
We were at Covid locked down and LD. We would share these amazing videos of nature, mountains and soft music. The scenes were so beautiful. … well for the past 3 years. We visited a lot of these countries…. Now that if I see these videos… I am like… honey look!! We were there last summer/week/year!

I never k ew that I was I. Anyway business like…but was told by multiple people… but I work in nonprofit and love what I do… so how?
also when I told my ex hubby that I wanted to buy houses… he said I was too business like.
my hubby now…he is helping me with my other passion! after I retired… he and I will work on my next passion!! He agrees!! Yippy!!
him on the other hand… has gotten really good doing business hehehee….
He helped me recognize my personality … I really didn't reflect much my whole like till he over analyzed me 😂… now that I know myself better… I just do things even better I guess. 😂

[worldscolide]

I always love your replies.

[midnightmoon05]

So when is girls get together during the dating stage… we gossip about these potential husbands… well we would say things like… oh… if the guy (boyfriend) cries with you… he is a keeper 😂
We were just so young… but what it translates is … when a man can open up and be vulnerable with us ladies… means he is a keeper. That he trusts us with his most inner feelings. So us ladies would protect that soul and too open up to the guy.
See you feel safe with your lady. ❤️
I wish more on gag finds this kind of love.

[worldscolide]

You and me both, and I thank you

[sage2021]

I don't know how he did it but every single day he was in a great mood. Always smiling😊 and joking around with me and I would do it back. I never saw him down in the dumps or moody (I can't stand to be around moody people).
He was always complimenting me and so positive! And I would do the same with him.
He touched my life in a way that for the first time in my life I was actually happy and so much in love and so was he❣️🙂

I had 6 years of bliss until he went to heaven 19 months ago.

RIP Patrick John and thanks for all the good memories.🙏🏼♥️🍪🍪🍪🍪🥛🥛🥛

[Shiprex]

My wife has given me a purpose. To support and build her up to her potential. It's worked out for her I am proud to say.

[Shiprex]

Thanks for the mho

[BCRanger10]

A lot of ugly stuff I dealt with before meeting her made a lot more sense.

[Agape93]

My best friend/boyfriend is my rock and my life. He's why I'm alive, literally and figuratively. He's the only reason I understand what love means and feels like.

[worldscolide]

That's very good

[worldscolide]

Side note, did you notice no AI response?

[Agape93]

Nope i have em all blocked lol

[Agape93]

Agreed

[worldscolide]

I blocked em my self. Don't like them commenting on my stuff.

Though admin may make it so we can't block them. I swear they are trying to make this place like reddit/quora

[Agape93]

God I hope not

[worldscolide]

Yeah I'd terminate my account

[Agape93]

Same

[Anonymous]

None of these, but a good friend of mine helped me open up and explore my sexual needs/desires without feeling pressured, judged or embarrassed. That has been significant as it affected most of my adult life.

[worldscolide]

Hey nothing wrong with that