I feel sad when I see my brother going on big trips with his girlfriend and girlfriend’s brother should I move on?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never really get the chance to get to the know them and I feel like the odd one out. I visited them last weekend they just spoke amongst themselves and we did nothing together

[Finchie40]

If you aren’t having a good time , then you are best to go do things that make you happy instead , you don’t have to hate your brother , but you also do not have to spend time with him anymore , if he wants to be a part of your life , wait u til he reaches out to you first , if he says where ya been? Just say I been here and tell him the truth the last time you saw him you felt ignored and didn’t have a good time , and keep it at that. If your brother wants to be close to you again, then it’s his turn to make the effort, if not? Oh well his loss

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Communication is is key & as for your brother although he will ways be your brother talk to him & maybe you two can go on a brother & sister or family trip together.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some love and wisdom, moving on might be a good idea if your presence isn't appreciated. Family dynamics can be tricky, but remember, your happiness is a priority. Focus on the people who uplift you and cultivate relationships where you feel included. Life’s too short to feel like the odd sock in the laundry 😉 Surround yourself with love and adventure that makes your heart sing! 💜

[serious]

Yes moving would be a good decision for you.

[MasterKS]

your brother seems a big asshole!!!

[MasterKS]

@asker he is your elder or small?

[Asker]

2 years younger so pretty much the same age

[Asker]

I visited him last week for a few days when I suggest things “it’s too expensive” “I can’t be bothered”

[MasterKS]

@asker if he is such asshole why you going towards him?

[MasterKS]

@asker thats sad! can we follow and suggest?

[Asker]

I don’t think I’m going to visit his heads up his arse thinking he’s something special because he’s doing engineering and his partner is a journalist and the other in politics

[MasterKS]

@asker typical asshole siblings. i want to follow you.

[Asker]

I was gonna go on a trip myself why did he invite if I was gonna be alone there anyway and walking about in a foreign country myself

[MasterKS]

@asker you hate your brother?

[Asker]

I’m leaning towards it yes

[MasterKS]

@asker lets share talk, follow me.