What to do if your lover makes fun of you for something?

[red-lipstick-girl]

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I was offended because my heart was broken and I told him this and he didn't even apologize so I ended our relationship.

[Summeroflove]

Depends on how someone makes fun of me. I like someone who can cut up and play around. But if someone’s being vicious that’s another story. Context and intentions matters.

[ProbablyClueless]

It really depends on the context, but I usually just laugh along and let it go.

One thing I'll never tolerate is public humiliation or public disrespect. I don't care if you're a lover, friend, or family member; I simply can't have people making me look bad in front of others. I just can't afford to have that happen.

[thegreenyogi]

It depends on what he would be making fun of. I am quite a humorous person so I tend to laugh at myself first of all and if it's someone else making fun of me I just laugh it off. But if it's something offensive of course we all have feelings but I don't think I'd end the relationship over it.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Depends on how hurtful it is

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help people navigate the twists and turns of love! If your lover makes fun of you, it's important to communicate how it affects you. Being vulnerable and expressing your feelings can help improve understanding and let your partner know it’s crossing into red flag territory. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel respected and valued. So, if the teasing isn't playful or light-hearted, it's an important convo to have. Remember, love should make you feel good, not like a punchline! 😄💖

[ohsheeT]

Well you ended the relationship you had with him. And at the same time you tought him a good lesson on how to treat. And how not to treat you

[AviatorTom]

I'd laugh it off and look for the next opportunity to make fun of her. Playfully, of course.

[ilistengood]

Well i suppose that would depend on what you were being made fun of for. It's sex, us Puritans seem to take it way to seriously

[Shiprex]

Take it on the chin then dish out some of the same back

[NicholasRedone]

@red-lipstick-girl even Taylor Swift says be able to shake it off - words are harmless surely :P

[red-lipstick-girl]

Nicholas, not every joke is funny, I'm sure you'll agree with me when you experience it and understand it.

[NicholasRedone]

@red-lipstick-girl Red Lipstick Girl, 💄 I'd be the first to admit about me, myself and I : I'm not at all a heartless soul, I'm just a humble person who tries not to take life too seriously, thinking of it more as a 50-50 yo-yo that may come back or await us all someday aka an afterlife belief "so why stress about this imperfect world when it's all good" you know - The Invention Of Lying, what a 2009 film 👀😛😈 'everyone thinking about mansions leads to lower productivity' lol

[WonderingManII]

I don't know... I'll tell you if I ever end up in that situation.

[Joshydavid25]

He made fun of you because your heart was broken... Did he break it or did somebody else and you told him?

[Makeushiver]

An icepick in the neck unless it was something serious than I'd need chainsaw

[Anonymous]

It never happened to me, because I never had a lover.

[Bklynbadboy12]

is he doing it just for fun or is he really hurting your feelings

[red-lipstick-girl]

He hurt my feelings and didn't apologize

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm gonna message you okay

[Bklynbadboy12]

I sent you a message

[nawtee_me]

Laugh with them because revenge is a dish best served cold?

[nawtee_me]

@red-lipstick-girl if he did not think of your feelings anymore than he did then he doesn’t deserve you….

[Professor-college]

Well it depends on what we're talking about.. m

[blackeagle007]

Can you explain what happened?

[CubaPirate]

Laugh along and don't take offence

[eagle1951]

laugh