Are you hiding anything from your partner?

[JustinTheGreat]

Okay so my husband and I decided to quit vaping together. It’s been about a month since we bought any vapes. Which is very good for us.

Now have I hit other peoples vapes in the last month? Absolutely lol. And he did the other night too at a friends birthday party. But he’s been doing much better than me.

tonight I caved and bought a vape because I have no fucking self control. And now I can’t find it…. So now I’m tearing up the living room very quietly while he’s sleeping. Because I need to find this vape before he does…😭😭😭 he will be so disappointed in me.
and his disappointment is not my only concern. I just know that if I vape in front of him, he’s gonna start again too. And then I’ll feel guilty that I ruined his streak of not doing it.

im gonna get popcorn lung and die early because im incapable of not inhaling watermelon flavored chemicals 🥲🥲🥲

[petitedollbabee]

I have a fetlife account that he didn’t know about. He had me delete my previous one a few years back. I created a new one 1.5 years ago, and still use it now, though i no longer have a partner.

[Godihateyou]

I had enough Bitcoin to retire 4 years ago but the thought of staying home all day with her was worse than going to work so I just keep going to work anyway. I figure I'll just keep this up until one of us dies.

[petitedollbabee]

Why would you stay in a miserable relationship like that

[Godihateyou]

Divorce is the only thing that gets more unaffordable the more you have.

[petitedollbabee]

That’s true

[Godihateyou]

She's not unbearable she just dull. We get along fine and the kids mostly like her. We are roommates that made a death pact at 23 years old before we had any idea what forever meant. Thats all.

[beenherebefore]

Not anymore.