Hiding stuff from your partner?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever got that weird feeling that your partner is hiding something from you or doing something behind your back. Would you go out of your way to investigate to find out the truth before conflicting them

[DaveJord]

Yup I have and when I asked, they called me jealous and possessive. But hiding things from your partner is a violation of trust, the very act that felt the need to not mention it or tell, means on some level they already knew there was something wrong about it.

So yeah, vacationing trust is a form of cheating.

Would I go out of my way to investigate it, NO!!! I would ask about it and inquire about it, and if that did not satisfy me then I would have to decide for myself what is best. In time the truth always comes out.

So most recently I discovered my girlfriend was taking actions to hide things. I was suspicious of her but I as long as she played it cool and acted right I didn't press. But the second I mentioned something to her about it, and listen to all the things she had to say... well it was enough to me to confirm my suspensions And that's when she started getting crazy and it was done for me. But if she would of played it cool, I might have kept dating her for a while longer, but she knew the jig was up. Her behavior confirmed it.

You never really will know the truth, but once you know you have lost trust in them... the truth honestly is that you will never be able to have a truly intimate relationship with them.

[Dennisthemenace79]

My girlfriend will not share any social media with me and when I mentioned something I saw on her friends they immediately went private so I couldn’t see anymore.

I immediately became suspicious if she was hiding something

[In_Trance]

Why not go out of your way to have a conversation with them about it?