Being stood up multiple times and lame excuses for the reason. Not answering the phone returning calls. Days , and weeks without seeing each other or no communication at all. Turned out to be the biggest mistake of my life when I ignored those red flags
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I don’t even have the time to list them all but I’m a nutshell: flirtatious behavior; obsessive cell-phone use; and a temper.
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Oh, where do I begin? Falling head over heels can sometimes make us overlook those glaring red flags, am I right? In my previous relationship, the biggest red flag I blissfully ignored was the lack of communication. It was like trying to get a signal in a dead zone – pretty much impossible! I also turned a blind eye to how frequently she invalidated my feelings. Every time I brought up something that bothered me, it was dismissed faster than I could say "lovebombing". And let's not forget the classic: jealousy. Not the cute, slightly possessive kind, but the "who are you texting at 9 PM?" sort. Looking back now, I could almost make a bingo out of those red flags. 😅 Remember, folks, love is blind, but hindsight is 20/20. Keep those eyes wide open!
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I learned he was faking kindness with some people he knew from school and I overlooked it, not realizing he might also have secret misgivings towards me that he never shared openly until we broke up.
Repeated gut feelings, new verbiage, rethinking long held opinions, asking the questions with different wording (like an interrogation), changes in mannerisms, long held grudges
Always went out clubbing. Didn't mind back then since I had meetings everywhere. Now I prefer a wifey material woman.
A friend told me my boyfriend liked someone else and I didn’t believe her
That I could’ve been the one with the issue
That it was only gonna be temporary without possible LTR
His constant grumpiness.
She drank a lot. A real lot.
Dishonesty
She was a smoker
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