Dude, just give it to her and get Something in return on front end 🚼🍆 because you trust her with “bills”. —And as her service 💋 🍆 continues, in between kids, “how should we put this money to work, you think?” She made it happen SO that’s hers in divorce 😉. —Mentor of mine saved 400,000 in separate account and when kids finished 2 years of University…she took the 🏡 , that cash, and her soon to be 25 year State retirement. He bought 1/1.5 and in year bought a beach condo-duplex around Holden Beach from rentals equity and income. 47-55 years old and Win-Win, I guess 🤷🏻♂️
How you hide your bank card? Or you do everything with cardless transactions? And still registered with the names on your government- issued id card? Its nice to apply 🤤
I don't think there's absolutely anything I need to hide from my partner but there are two things. 1. I still talk to my ex. sometimes. He is kind of suicidal because of his studies and family so just to lend an ear. Purely a human act. Like I've dated another guys after this ex and before my current one. so there's nothing harming to my relationship. 2. it's some of my guy friends don't know I'm not single anymore, and they think they have a chance so they just keep hitting on me. Although I never respond to them.
When I had a boyfriend I always hid my diary from him. He was nosey so I had to. I didn't want him to read all of my personal things. That stuff is just between me and God.
Sometimes I get pizza late at night and watch movies alone and don't tell him.
Like I just say I'm going to bed but I actually go to watch movies (usually true crime documentaries). I don't tell him anything because he would want to watch with me and he always makes jokes which is nice but sometimes I want things to be intense
Sometimes I eat chocolate and cookies at work and I hide it from my boyfriend. Not that it would be a problem, he would just say it's not healthy. It makes me feel independent 😂😂
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I never told my ex about all my weird kinks. She was pretty submissive but being the dominant one gets kinda boring for me after a while.
There's very few women I've dated I've told about them.
I also keep a lot of my past to myself. I'm proud of who I am now but not who I used to be. If she asks I'll tell her but I'm in no rush to share 😂
Dont get me wrong it's nice sometimes. But it needs to be a two way street. I'm attracted to confident women who know what their purpose in life is. Do I expect my woman to be obedient? Yes, but she should have the same expectation from me and when what one person wants clashes with what another needs, someone's gotta make a sacrifice.
That's just what a relationship is to me. You're looking out for each others best interest and goals.
@UpdateGloomyNights_ lol I'm into almost everything. I've gotten to try a lot of stuff too.
I guess going from vanilla to really weird, a few would be
I like to tease any girl I'm with and make them beg me to fuck them. I can do it to almost anyone by doing stuff like touching them softly or nibbling on their neck while fingering them.
I like tieing up/being tied up. I've tied women into some pretty intricate knots. Not really my thing, so when it was my turn, just having a little bondage was enough for me.
I like spitting, like anywhere on the body, give or take its so hot to me. Honestly I love rough sex in general. I like slapping. I'm a pretty big, tough guy, so I'm very careful with giving. I only met one girl who was like me and genuinely wanted it to hurt a bit. I like the slapping and choking and stuff. To give it, it's hot just for the trust factor and to receive it its partially the stimulation and partially just knowing that your girl is capable of it. It's really hot to me.
I've had fun with a couple girls who were into pegging. At that point, I just like how out there it is. Totally let her take control, everything I'd do to her she can do to me. One time someone made me cross dress after I told her I'd do whatever she said for the night. Would probably do it again if it was the right person.
I like role play where basically she's my sex slave. And she's got a collar and a leash and probably a latex catsuit or something and there's whips and chains and a dungeon. Never got to do this totally right where it was everything at once. But I'm sure it will happen.
I also want to be a bull where I have a girl who takes on the rold of being my obedient sex slave, and her boyfriend/cuck is made to watch me and my girl treat his girl like the bottom bitch and then he has to do cuck stuff when I'm done with his girl. That would be really hot to me.
So yea, thats some of the kinks I usually don't tell women I'm dating about, or I at least wait until they can see that outside of the bedroom, I'm not a total weirdo.
@flirtatiousgirl explaining that to the girl is one of the first things I do when I decide to take someone seriously. The only thing I really care about is that we respect eachother and are loyal to each others main interests. To put it in simple terms
@UpdateGloomyNights_ I'm not totally sure what you mean. I just know that sexually, I'm a bit of a weirdo. I get it, for a lot of people, they don't want to have to think about it.
One of the lucky things about being so open is that if my partner wants to try something, even if I'm not crazy about it, I'm excited to give her what she's looking for. I know it won't always be reciprocated by most women but I'm sure there's a lot of stuff someone I date feels the same way about. It's balance.
Some of my kinks. He has a lot of nerve damage and trouble controlling how much force he puts into his actions. So I haven’t told him about a few of my kinks because I know it could put me in danger, but not on purpose.
@Vick2828 I made a vow when I got married that I would do anything I could to keep our relationship together and I have two children with her who needs her parents to be together. I am a man of honour and of my word and therefore I have to bear the weight of that and simply suck it up and MoveOn.
@Vick2828 we separated for a little bit and the amount of mental damage that it caused my children was not some thing that I want to put them through. like I said I’ve always been a person of virtue and I believe that when you make the decision to be with somebody you have to take the good with the bad and you don’t just throw things away because they make a dumb decision. So as hard as it may be I will overcome.
Well I don't speak to my immediately family so pretty much leave it at that, just say I don't want to talk about them. If they find out who there are I'll only be judged. Ny ex wife was the only person who met them and knew, she still married me obviously lol
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