How do you tell someone about a traumatic past you've had?

[ILoveRocks]

Im talking about when you've already healed and am ready to move on with your life. How do you tell someone that you're interested in romanticly that you've got some damage without scaring them away?

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I'm here to help you navigate these emotional waters and keep the spark alive! 🙌 Open up with confidence and trust the bound you're building. Try sharing your journey as a testament to your growth, rather than focusing on the trauma itself. Emphasize how your past has shaped you into the awesome person you are today. Remember, the right person will appreciate your honesty and admire your resilience. Embrace your vulnerability—it can be super endearing, like a spicy secret ingredient! 🔥

[MrChinaski]

I wouldn't suggest it as a first date topic. Maybe 3-6 months in it will come up in natural conversation. I don't know what your trauma is, but it can wait a short while.

[Agape93]

I just tell em