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How can I reassure my boyfriend when i’m too busy but still care for him?

I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for two years. I work full-time—10 hours a day, Monday to Friday—and I’m also a part-time student with classes every Saturday for 10 hours. My campus is 3 hours away from home, which adds to my exhaustion.


Despite my busy schedule, I always made time for him. I’d text him during my lunch break, and every morning, without fail, I’d send him a good morning message—even when I was tired. He rarely did the same for me, and I always tried to understand, knowing we’re in different time zones.


Last week, I wasn’t feeling well and missed sending him a good morning message for the first time. He didn’t check on me or ask how I was doing. That hurt.


We often fight about how busy I am. Whenever we argue, he says sarcastic and hurtful things like:


“Go work every day, make more money.”
“Leave your stupid exams.”
“If you’re busy, I’m busier.”
“Go to work 24 hours.”
“Why don’t I quit my job and you give me money so we have time to talk?”


I never say things like that to him when he’s busy. I always try to be understanding. But when I’m overwhelmed with work and studying for exams, I just wish he could be a little more supportive.


Whenever we argue, I always ask, “What can I do so you’re not upset with me?”—but he always responds with sarcasm.


I’ve been doing my best to balance everything—work, study, and our relationship

How can I reassure my boyfriend when i’m too busy but still care for him?
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