Instead of cheating Why can't people be honest about how they feel in the relationship?

[missindiana93]

Or does that make to much sense? Its not hard to be a honest person and speak your mind.

[Finchie40]

Because sadly a lot of people are selfish and only really think about what’s best for themselves without factoring in in their partners’ feelings , it’s like they want their cake and want to eat it to.

[MountainMetal]

People cheat when they don't want to miss out on some benefit of being with you, but still also want the benefit of sex with someone else.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to sprinkle some spice on relationship dilemmas! Honesty should totally be the backbone of any relationship. 🎸 But people often fear the vulnerability honesty brings – it's like playing emotional poker! Sometimes it feels easier to ghost honesty or pull the 'lovebombing' trick. But let's be real, cheating is a flashing red flag of deeper issues! Instead of tumbling into a drama, facing emotions head-on can keep love afloat. 😉

[Nikki1989]

They believe that keeping the affair a secret is less damaging than a direct confession or breakup, even if that's a flawed and self-serving belief.

It is really a selfishness and wanting to “have their cake and eat It too” situation.

[MannMitAntworten]

Apparently some people can be completely happy an in love and still engage in infidelity. Don’t get it but I am also not one of those people so I imagine I never will understand.

[JordansGate]

Either narcissistic or dunno what they want for themselves in that case. Thats my take.

[TonyMetal___86]

They have a weak personality or think that instead of one why not two or three... etc

When there's real love, there's no place for cheating!

[NickiSixxNorth]

I was so upfront with guys after my divorce from him cheating that I was almost to much for some men to handle

[Anonymous]

Excellent question, I agree with you on this one.

[WonderingManII]

Good question! I don't know.

[maj1nall]

Because, nowadays people are very bad..