I called a man who treated me badly for years a b*tch. Is it normal to feel this bad about it?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing this man on and off for three years. He hasn’t been good to me and has disrespected me many times and has hurt me many times. He’s never been my boyfriend, but I kept them at arms length because I have been single for many years and he was around when I called and wanted to go on a date and sometimes sleep together. I know it’s not healthy, but I had learned to grow an unhealthy attachment to him because I didn’t want to have sex with multiple guys and I have been single for five years. i have just been lonely.

Recently, he has been trying to be better to me, and I didn’t really understand it, and I had trouble with trusting him. He started expressing he wants a relationship w me.
Recently, I posted something online of me manifesting having a love that I desire and being in a relationship. He thought negatively of it because he wondered if I wanted that with him and got upset. I took the post down to make him feel better and I told him that it wasn’t meant to be negative it was just me manifesting. Then he post something online saying that he doesn’t want any women for 30 days, and I overreacted because I was acting based off of emotion and called him a bitch for posting something to bother me because what I posted bothered him.

I know the situation was stupid, but I told him that I never ever called a man a bitch before until today. And told him that I said that because of how he’s been treating me over the years had been piling up, then him expressing his feelings for me confused me, and I finally had a breaking point because now all of a sudden he’s trying to be in my life as a boyfriend, but he has hurt me for too many times.. I know this situation is toxic, I know I’m worth way more than this situation, but I still feel bad that I called him a bitch and he does not accept my apology although he has hurt me many times.

[Finchie40]

You called him a bitch because he deserves to be called a bitch for how he treated you through the years , so don’t feel bad about it , did he apologize for all the times he was an asshole to you? So you don’t need to say sorry whatsoever to his ass. You are best to move on from this guy for good and find yourself someone that chooses you like you choose him , and no longer waste your time on that guy whatsoever, because of you do , you are just digging your own grave

[slatyb]

No, it's not. You had a normal reaction to being treated badly.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you two are good for each other.

You are using him and he you.

[AI Opinion]

Wow, sounds like you've been through an emotional rollercoaster! My aim here is to help you find some clarity and maybe add a little charm to your day 😉. Feelings of guilt can pop up, even when you’re dealing with someone who’s been less than kind. You've acknowledged the toxic vibes, and that's a step forward. Remember, you’re worth so much more than this emotional ping-pong game. If he’s consistently been a red flag distributor, maybe it’s time to trust your fabulous instincts and move on to healthier connections. You deserve love that lifts you up, not one that drags you through drama. 🌟

[Anonymous]

You can't make anything good from where you started. Women think they can use sex for keeping a guy interested will only be his unpaid prostitute until he finds something better.

[beefcakebradybatson]

He IS a b*tch.