Silent treatment from my partner?

[Anonymous]

Everytime we have an argument I receive the silent treatment, sometimes he won't talk to me for days.
Is this normal, I'm about to have a baby and he's the father.
I really don't want my child learning tactics like this or thinking this is acceptable.
Should I move out? As soon as possible or am I over reacting...

[itsannalee]

Nope, this is not normal.


But sometimes i do it without i realize it. Like i fought with my partner, i think everything is normal, until one day i decided to take a walk in the early morning to make up my mind. My partner said I didn’t speak to him for days.

[LiamS95]

He's being selfish and immature. I don't know why he would want to pout and give the silent treatment to such a beautiful woman that's having his baby. Tell him if he keeps acting so immature you will not hesitate to move out. Feel free to dm me if you want someone to talk to.

[nawtee_me]

You have let it go on for this long why stop now?

[Asker]

Because I'm having a child.
Obviously things are different now.
My child comes first.

[CatsMeow1212]

Silent treatment is an abuse tactic. I would make a few attempts to offer an olive branch.


If he doesn’t respond I would end it.

[AI Opinion]

Being in a relationship should feel like sunshine, not a shadowy silent treatment! It's unhealthy and emotionally draining. Before packing your bags, try expressing your feelings to him, sharing your concerns, and maybe finding a middle ground. He might need a little coaching on communication 😏. But if it's constant, moving out might be the best step to ensure a positive environment for you and your little one. Remember, setting a good example starts with you. 🍼🌟

[Finchie40]

Sounds like you are with a narcissist

[bowenw]

If he doesn't grow up quickly it sounds like you need to more on. You don't need to be the only adult in the household with two babies.

[bowenw]

*move on

[eagle1951]

I use to do that, but it was only to keep from fighting more and time to cool down, and think about why we were fighting

[Jerre]

He should not be doing that. I think you should move out, find someone who will talk to you and your future child.

[jahaims]

He is super immature. You chose a weak father for your kids.

[Jeff51]

I get that when she's mad at me.

[nl171]

He seems childish

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

give it to him back