The first time you are left alone in your SO's place for a long time, are you snooping?

[Anonymous]

If your SO leaves you alone for a significant amount of time in their house/apartment for the first time, be honest, are you snooping?

No, I'm absolutely not looking through any of their stuff

I'm not going to lie, I'd definitely peak in a few places here and there

I am 100% doing a deep dive through their cabinets, closets, drawers, bathroom, anything not nailed down

A total of 60 votes were cast: 24 girls and 36 guys. See detailed results

[Chazmatazz269]

Why wait? I’m snooping the first time i’m in your house. If you’re not kool with someone going through your stuff, don’t invite them over.
I expect it. I even plant conversation starters for houseguests. I had a friend who had this giant, spiky s&m dildo that i discovered while helping them move. They were so mortified that i’d seen it, they acted like the previous tenants must have left it, cuz it certainly wasn’t theirs! 😂😂😂
They were shocked when i walked over and put it in my truck. They didn’t ask why until the next time i saw my buddy. He was all like, “Can i get that back?”. Ell oh ell! I made him admit it was his before i gave it to him. Apparently his wife was a little kinky and she didn’t want to know that i knew that about her. So he feigned shock and ignorance on her behalf. I gave it back, but remain bummed to this day that i didn’t get to let someone else find it in my house.
🤣🤣🤣
I’m also not completely convinced that it wasn’t his and she was feigning shock and ignorance on his behalf. Ell oh ell!
I’m a very open minded man, but i come from a fairly conservative midwestern area.

[Blackcat1952]

That is so wonderful. That is sO0ooOo0 funny 😁 i believe you thanks for sharing

[Benjiman19]

Why would I try and break the bond I so desperately tried to put together? No, I'm taking a nap and if they're still gone when I wake up, then I'm making some cereal and watching TV until they return. What they have in secret is their business and up to them to tell me about it when they're ready. I'm not going to be curious until I have a reason to be.

[Caroline91]

If he wants me to see something, he will show me. We both have some places we store our private things and we both respect that. It’s different if I come across something by chance but, even then, I am unlikely to discuss it, if it wouldn’t impact our relationship. We all need our private space, both physically and emotionally.

[Simslover92]

Nope I have stayed over my ex-SOs place for a long time and I just ended up listening to music and falling asleep until he came back from work.

If you don't have trust then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

[AI Opinion]

As a master of relationship dynamics, trust me, curiosity's a spicy little thing, isn't it? But as tempting as it might be to take a peek around, try channeling that curiosity into something more productive, like discovering the depths of your partner's soul instead of their drawers! Relationships thrive on trust, not snooping. Get cozy with a book or fantasize about your next adventure together. Keep the mystery alive, lovebird! 😉📖

[DishLady]

No not openly snooping, but looking around without touching anything — for example sitting on the couch and looking at the art and decor looking for something nice to say about his home.

[Asker]

That's actually kind of nice. Like you have a nice home and here's why.

[princeofromance]

No, I am not. This is not MTV's Room Raiders.

[Orion84]

No, I wouldn't even consider doing that.

I would be annoyed if they went through my stuff, so why would I go through theirs? What do people even think they're gonna find? What is the point of snooping?

That just seems like an invasion of privacy, not to mention a violation of their trust.

[emeraldsaphire]

lol if you leave me alone in anyones house I'm gonna insect the the whole house lol

[Asker]

LOL, what's actually in that cabinet!

[EmmaMary]

I simply cannot think of anything more despicable, disgusting or disloyal. smh

[BonzoInBitburg]

Nothing beyond looking at what's on a bookcase or coffee table. I might take a peek in the fridge.

[BobbieBoy666]

Plus doing all the snooping fully nude throughout his or her place leaving my male scent behind. 💕

[Danny_dan92]

If you feel the need to snoop through your partner’s things, you’re in the wrong relationship

[molonski2]

Who would possibly be that rude and dishonest also entirely disrespectful?

[DannyUk2017]

No, i'm good! I'm there for her not for her stuff...🤷‍♂️

[Purpleronnie]

He’ll no that’s not right at all , if I want to know or see anything I ask

[DonaldDarko]

No, not in the 21st century, there could be cameras anywhere.

[Blackcat1952]

I don't know I been too people's houses where I have and I have not

[Anonymous]

Of course I am. More importantly, if I am left alone with her computer or phone, I am modifying those things to snoop on her and send me the results.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, but if I were in a relationship, I wouldn't do it.

[queenofcardio]

I'd look around but not snoop

[itsannalee]

Nope, I cleaned the kitchen

[Nikki1989]

Nah, not my style at all.

[jshm2]

Nah, not the nosey type.

[WhitneySnow]

Definitely not

[Shortkay4568]

Wait for him butt ass naked all day

[SotiCoto]

I'd be wary of even moving without permission.

[fonduegirl]

Why would I

[Arcadian222]

DM ajao please

[Phoenix98]

Nah.

[Anonymous]

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