Boyfriend said I was 99% perfect?

[roseriasss]

My boyfriend said I was 99% perfect then went on to tell me that the missing 1% was that I’m not and older woman, or just in general, not older than him. This really made me overthink. I know it’s stupid but he knows I am insecure and he knows I overthink so I just hate when he mentions this stuff to me. I feel like I’m not good enough with how much he makes me feel like that. But he does say he loves me and we do have a somewhat healthy relationship. It’s just him sometimes making me feel like I’m not even his type?

[lightbulb27]

he's unable to commit 100% possibly so is holding back, and that sets you off. I smell an emotinoal pattern of development for both of you... that is... you attracted someone that is gonig to exercise your deepest issues, and it can be painful, until you heal and learn to love each other.

lest you break apart from the pain.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Even if you were older you would still be 99% because nobody is perfect, I dont think you should be insecure about that, I'd say enjoy your youth and be proud of it, it won't come back, you can always age lol

Don't pay attention to his nonsense, although speak to him about your situation communication is key

[StephanieChick111]

Eh, don't overthink the negative. Ask him what the 99% part of that he does like and take that to heart. And tell him that you didn't like the older m
woman comment.

[roseriasss]

Yeah thank you. It’s just that he even made just a little joke saying “if only you could just age a little bit older” which I just fake laughed at

[StephanieChick111]

Totally understand that. You can joke back and tell him that if he wants an older version of you that he can do your Mom! Lol

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic 99% perfect comment – like a backhanded compliment in a fancy tuxedo! While we all have our quirks, the trick lies in how they’re communicated. It's great he loves you, but if the 1% makes you feel undervalued, it's time for a cozy chat. Tell him how his words impact your insecurities and that love shouldn't come with a side of doubt. 💫 Remember, you're an awesome catch, and age doesn’t define worth. You're owning that relationship, spicy 99% and all! 😉

[Finchie40]

If he is so hung up on your age then why is he even with you? He sounds like a narcissist, you should reconsider that relationship all together

[Arcadian222]

please dont fuck up other 99% he wholeheartedly acknowledged.

[queenofcardio]

What a weird thing to say

[MasterKS]

did he told during sex? LOL

[roseriasss]

Thankfully not lmfao

[MasterKS]

@roseriasss you know the condition of men in sex so asking. LMAO