Why does he think I'm perfect?

[Anonymous]

The guy that I am really into text me today and said "You are gorgeous. Pretty much perfect." but I am far beyond being perfect. I have flaws out the ass just like everyone else. No where near perfect. Could this guy really be feeling me or is he "Spitting game?"

[Vendrix]

It depends on how he says it. If he sounds serious he may mean that he's really into you. Ya sure everyone has flaws, but that doesn't mean he's going to say "Your cute, but you could use a few more ab workouts". Not gonna happen.

My girlfriend feels she isn't perfect, realistically who is, but she's beautiful to me, and I know I'm not perfect either but I'm not going to comment on her flaws. Its not nice, and ruins self-esteem.

Basically, he wouldn't say it if he wasn't in to you. Game or not, there is attraction there. You just need to explore it and see if he's right for you or not.

[Asker]

Wow, great answer! thank you.

[Vendrix]

Thank you. :D

[Shaun]

He could be gaming you, or he could be attracted to your flaws, that's not unheard of.

[ShootingStar5]

He probably meant that you were perfect for him... As far as "spitting game," does he act like he's seriously interested in you? Has he ever complimented anything other than your looks or body? Does he try to talk to you and find out more about you? Does he look you in the eyes ever? If he does then he's probably genuinely interested.

[Anonymous]

Ive heard that before many times. Sounds like game but you can't be so sure of that either. Let his actions show you that more than his words and if a guy keeps sayin too many things you want to hear, most likely he is tryin to hard but time will tell

[Anonymous]

he's gaming you