Are you a giver or a taker in your relationship or do you have a nice balance?

[stratford]

Are you the giver or taker in your relationship or do you have a nice balance?

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11 mo

I suspect most takers don't see themselves as takers.

[HawkPerception]

Always seem to be the giver. Ideally my relationship would be more balanced though. I've learned through my past relationships to start prioritizing what I want in the relationship more. Now, when I'm looking for a partner, I make sure they're the type to put in the same effort, or at least close to the same effort (because things will never be truly equal)

[Anonymous]

I feel like me and him both give and take i. Different ways he pays our bills and I clean, bake and cook while I also work a full-time job i take more then him but I also do the traditional wife stuff while also working... not everyone's cup of tea but works great for us

[mysteriousN]

Have you or him considered "someone should drop down to part time or even casual?" Referring to workloads

[mysteriousN]

Aka jobs - not chores

[mysteriousN]

Hell i'd think, even though it's the thing nowadays, a happy couple both working full time - hell I'd smell affairs potential a Mile away or a Kilometre away - yet typically I'm a 30 something single guy, so what would I know lol 😆 anyways - I find working as a single busy enough

[mysteriousN]

Throughout my life this far,

[beenherebefore]

I used to be a big giver. Now I gravitate more towards being a receiver but I’m trying to find balance.

[stratford]

What is your preference when it comes to receiving?

[beenherebefore]

Wdym?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the classic dance of give and take in relationships! As your friendly neighborhood relationship coach, I’m all about balancing that tango. You see, every healthy relationship thrives on a sweet mix of giving and receiving. Too much of either can tip the scales, leading to drama or ghosting. A harmonious balance keeps the love flowing and prevents any red flags from popping up! 😘✨ So, give a little, take a little, and dance on! 💃🕺

[dustybiker2]

I'm more spice, so the pendulum leans from time to time, but it's to add flavour. Mostly it's balanced.

[valentina4eva]

i am always too much of a giverrr😲😅 i always try to prioritize myself too but it never seems to last😵‍💫

[Abbycado]

I think my boyfriend and I have a very good balance.

[WonderingManII]

giver until I realize that I give and give but don't get back. Relationship over and done.

[dustybiker2]

Try letting it be known what would make you happy in return. Sitting down and having those mellow conversations often break down unnecessary walls.

[WonderingManII]

@dustybiker2 I never had anyone in my life that is reasonable like that.

[dustybiker2]

Then you might be attracted to the wrong people. Notice the differences in woman and try a different type then you normally would lean to.

[WonderingManII]

@dustybiker2 I can only be with the woman that are in my life, and that is all that is in my life.

[WonderingManII]

@dustybiker2 I can only be with the women that in my in life, and that is the kind of women that have been in my life. Currently there is no women in life.

[WonderingManII]

@dustybiker2 I'm having trouble typing this out. I will try one more time.

I can only be with the women that are in my life. I don't have the option of having anything different. Anyways currently I have no women to even try to be with. It is just the way things are where I live.

[dustybiker2]

Oh okay.

[WonderingManII]

@dustybiker2 It isn't about attraction. My community has been giving me and my parents trouble for years. We don't fit into it. My parents and I are getting ready to leave it. So maybe things will improve after the move.

[dustybiker2]

Good luck

[soe11]

• Thankfully my relationship is free from above ideas, must be true love, kindness, trustworthy, honesty each other in love.

[HelenaHandbasket]

There’s no such thing as a giver or taker. That’s like asking “do you breathe in or out?”

[stratford]

That means you haven't experienced it yet, or realised it.

[Shiprex]

Giver of some things and get some back but it's hard to say balanced.

[Anonymous]

I'm a giver to those deemed worthy of giving.

[nojdug76]

Well I like to take but I give back anything for my love

[Beckybooboo]

We have a balance.

[mysteriousN]

Every major decision requires a coin flip ; lol 😆 Futurama episode classic joke "Coin flips are different in different parallel universes" lol Gold Bender versus Regular Bender

[mysteriousN]

I joke I joke ofc

[Beckybooboo]

@mysteriousN How long are you back for this time? 😁

[queenofcardio]

I always give more than I get

[stratford]

Please can you give some examples?

[queenofcardio]

I'll be more accommodating to his schedule over mine , I'll sacrifice certain things like sleep, to make plans work when he's less willing to sacrifice certain things for me. The key is to find a balance. I don't usually realize it at the time

[stratford]

Sounds like you're too good for him.

[mysteriousN]

Oh I'm a giver in my ideal relationships 👍🥳😋

[Jennz6]

I do both

[CubaPirate]

Definitely giver

[fonduegirl]

Taker.

[stratford]

In more ways than one?

[fonduegirl]

Yeah.

[stratford]

Do you prefer taking out front or round the back?

[mysteriousN]

Rose always was fascinating 🌹 lol 😆 great movie

[fonduegirl]

@mysteriousN thanku

[Anonymous]

I've never been in a relationship.