What do you think, can a guy fall in love with another girl whilst he’s with a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Is it possible to really be in love with another girl whilst having a girlfriend? Especially say over a long period eg a year. What does this mean? The girlfriend doesn’t fulfil him or something else?

[jennifer_bloom]

Unless the guy is crazily shallow, and I've said this before but most have not read that post, that unless the guy is crazily shallow, he cannot remain in love with a beautiful woman that does not satisfy his mind or emotions. The bible says beauty is fleeting, not because it is temporary, but because the person who sees beauty adapts to beauty and once he adapts, he no longer cares how beautiful his wife is, which is why so many beautiful women get abandoned without spousal support after their husbands get bored of them. You need protein to satisfy the stomach after the fruit satisfies the tongue, and you need personality to satisfy the mind after the appearance becomes boring and dull to somebody who has adapted to looking at beauty and no longer cares how beautiful you are.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s my understanding that’s the norm for men. They settle for a woman they don’t love who will take care of them but will leave her instantly for a woman they love.

[Finchie40]

It can happen , it basically means he wasn’t really in love with his girlfriend to begin with , he just liked the convenience of her and strung her along until he met someone else that he actually loves

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yes, a guy can be I love with more than one one woman. It doesn't mean anything bad about the girlfriend, he just needs a variety.

[Asker]

Yeah I’m, but do you think it’s possible to love them the same or one always is more than the other? Like is one gives him for physical and emotional depth that he needs and the other provides more stability and routine,

[StevenMcGarrett]

It possible to love them the same. I met my wife twenty years ago. When I met her, her best friend was getting a divorce. She asked my wife if she could borrow me. It started being a regular thing and then sometimes threesomes. Eventually we became a throuple and we've been going strong for twenty years.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there, relationship guru here! 😏 So, can a guy fall in love with someone else while having a girlfriend? Absolutely, it could happen. It might signal some unmet needs in the current relationship or simply that emotions are a complex circus, you know? Love isn’t always a tidy little package 🎁. But if it happens, it’s important to be honest and figure out what's going on. Remember, honesty and communication are key, darling! 🌟

[StephanieChick111]

Yes, guys can love more than women. They are biologically made to.

[BarryLiverstone]

Not biologically designed to love many at the same time, but rather to procreate.

[Anonymous]

It happens, unfortunately. I have feelings for a girl from my past that no other can seem to overcome.

[Anonymous]

It's possible, but not all the guys are like that.

[Asker]

But would he love them the same or something wrong in existing relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

If he is physically attracted to her, maybe he would.
But it's also possible that some problem in existing relationship is bothering him.

[Sam1133]

Absolutely spread love is my philosophy of life so I love many girls at a time... lol.

[AvaRay]

I believe real love isn’t about spreading affection to many, it’s about commitment, loyalty, and respect..

Being with someone isn’t just about feeling attraction, it’s about valuing them, honoring the relationship, and nurturing trust..

If a person can “love many girls at a time,” that’s not love, that’s self indulgence and lack of integrity..

True love stands firm, even over long periods, because it’s built on faithfulness, understanding, and shared values, not fleeting desires.. 😊

[jahaims]

He is emotionally immature

[slatyb]

Of course he can.

[Asker]

But would he love them the same or not?

[RedInnocent69]

It happens