Is it possible an independent professional woman becomes a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

I have the idea that if a woman is independent and has a stable job she does not need to be hooked to a man to satisfy her needs financially but maybe im wrong.

Here is the scenario and tell me if you think this woman is a gold digger.

A 30yrd old woman who used to (not anymore) worked as a restaurant hostess in a LA restaurant, she worked there for about maybe 4 years (possibly from 2019 to 2023), while working as a hostess in those 3-4yrs she dated a chef from the same restaurant chain even was engaged but never married.

Fast forward to 2023 and the woman broke up with her chef boyfriend back in 2021 or 2022 (possibly) and in 2023 she met a famous movie star when she was still working as hostess. As she was a hostess she was practically an unknown person to the world maybe making her end meets, (Im not aware if being a restaurant hostess in LA is a well paid job) The movie star seems to have fell in love with the hostess in 2023 around the beginning of that year, still in March 2023 she was still a hostess. Around August 2023 this lady was seen for the first time in Italy with this movie star, and the first time she went from totally unknown to half known but with no name and only called by the press "mystery woman". The couple was very private and discreet while dating, barely seen dating on LA streets.

Then after she returned from this Italian trip (2023) with her new beau (the famous star) it was mentioned she quit her job at the restaurant as a hostess and ever since noone knows what she does for a living only she has been dating this movie star now for 2 years. I mean now she is living her dream possibly, money, rub off with famous people, dating a good looking actor, fancy and expensive trips and dinners, nothing of that she had maybe while working as a restaurant hostess, before meeting the actor. The press and the media still for 2 years never knew her name she was always called the "mystery woman or lady". Until the end of last last

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year her name was slipped to the press while she was attending a high end fashion show the actor was invited and attached to the article revealing her name, it was published she was a "designer" but never mentioned what type of "designer" she really is. I mean from rest hostess to fashion designer who hooked with a famous actor in less than 4 years. She has no social media like if she was really a designer she must have social media to sell her products. Back to the question if this lady was an

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independent and professional woman after quitting her rest job and dating this guy , there was no need to keep her under secrecy for so long, nothing wrong to say the job she had if she had one and that she was lucky that a normal woman is dating a movie star but she has a stable job.. Until now noone knows what is her real job only she is a "designer" so it makes people wonder if this lady is living off this movie star and the "designer" job was just to mislead her actual job.

[Summeroflove]

Well sure this happens just because someone’s currently working doesn’t mean that they don’t also wish they weren’t. As well as if they ever had the option to never have to work again they wouldn’t take it…

I think that some women intentionally stay in certain fields (despite being able to pick other jobs if they wanted) because that’s where they think they are going to meet the man of her dreams. Where she won’t have to work anymore.

I get it. Some men do want something traditional. But you gotta be careful a lot of those women aren’t looking for love. They also don’t make good wives. Why? Because they’re under this illusion that being a housewife is sitting around doing whatever they want all day. While the husband works his ass off and then comes home to do chores. So she can sit around.. and when she’s cooking, cleaning, taking care of children, and is as exhausted as he is. They become resentful. Trust me…. It’s really bad.

[Sal_Monella]

Only when she is ready to retire. Then she becomes an I. E. D. for any man. She wants what you have worked 60 hour weeks to earn and to isolate your children.

[Asker]

I dont understand your response

[Sal_Monella]

Probably not. Ask your friends who are divorcing.

[Asker]

Noone is divorcing and noone is married, they are just dating

[Anonymous]

No not a gold digger

[Asker]

I agree too but the other lady in comparison could be agold digger then

[Opinion Owner]

You got to understand something the paparazzi are scum the biggest scum of the earth. If they got wind she was a waitress or hostess they would have a field day with that one. There's nothing wrong with being a waitress or hostess it's an honest living to that celebrity to everyday people but to those filthy scumbag paparazzi oh forget it those wannabe stuck up snobs and that celebrity's manager and PR forget it money grubbing pigs.

[Opinion Owner]

I been around that type of stuff the managers PR team the paps all scumbags. The celebrities themselves can be good people but who they work for and who works for them that's an entirely different story just keep your guard up around those degenerate lowlives

[Asker]

Im not saying a restaurant worker is a bad thing it is am honest job sure, but what I meant was the lady was a restaurant worker and she quit when she met the movie star. She could had continue to work as a hostess why not? Why she quit? and now she does not work or work on a field where u have to have social media otherwise you are doomed, and she does nto ahve social media at all and people say she is a designer all of a sudden. Can you become a designer a fashion one in oen year or less?

[Opinion Owner]

She can find another job or maybe he's helping her out financially doesn't make her a gold digger