Do you know anyone who sleeps with married men or women for money or for love?

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I do. Both of my best friends are. One's doing it for survival and the other for love and I wonder if this is a common thing.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I i have slept with married women that I didn’t know were married , a handful of times. for love but only one time in my life I had sex with a married woman that I knew was married , but knew she was clearly unhappy in her marriage , I met her husband a few times as well , and he was a complete asshole towards her, and I thought to myself she could do way better than him , he looked like a slob. I told her multiple times to divorce him and leave him , but for whatever reason she was scared to do so , but she kept throwing herself at me and always said sweet things to me and flirted with me , I was very attracted to her , she was very beautiful to my eyes and very kind to me. The one night she offered to pay me to come see her , because she knew I didn’t feel comfortable with the fact that she was married. I was friends’ with her from work for quite sometime before all this went down , she called me and begged me to come see her at a hotel that she was staying at , and told me she got into a huge fight with her husband and told him it’s over , as to why she was staying at a hotel , I told her I had to go to work that night and that I could come after I was finished , she begged me to call off and offered me money to do so instead , it was my under the table bouncer job that I worked on the weekends for extra cash , she said she really wants to see me and wants me there with her , so I called off from work to go see her. She kept saying she would pay me more than what I was going to make that night, I said she doesn’t have to but she insisted , So I agreed to come see her and she immediately wrapped her arms around me and was crying in my arms and saying thank you for coming that she didn’t want to be alone , I told her again that she needs to divorce her husband immediately. , and she said she is , that she is calling an attorney first thing tomorrow morning , and she said she is completely done with him. . Eventually her and I started making out and having sex all night long , when we were finished she handed me 200’ dollars and I declined her offer and told her i didn’t want her money , but dam I felt like a Giglio at that moment 😂 . I then told her if she divorces her husband , then I would love to be with her. She was excited that I wanted to be with her , so she immediately filed for divorce and her and I ended up together and dated for awhile, i was 22 years old at the the time and she was 29 , the only reason we stopped seeing each other because her family wanted her to move back to Miami and she offered me to go with her , but I declined because I didn’t want to leave my friends and family , Her and I are still friends to this day , and she is now happily married to someone else with kids’ she still reaches out to me at times to see how I am doing and still says I am the best she ever had in bed. I just laugh and say thanks for the compliments 😊 as I gotten older I realized so many people are unhappy in their marriages and relationships to the point I don’t really care if she is married or taken anymore , especially when I am single and searching for a girl to have a relationship with and fall in love. When I meet a beautiful girl in public that I am interested in and that’s interested in me , I just go with the flow , if she is lying to me about her relationship status , that’s her problem not mine , because I consider myself an honest guy and hoping she is being honest with me , but unfortunately that isn’t always the case , especially these days. So if her and I end up in bed together , oh well, I wasn’t the one that was lying , but when I find out she is lying , I just say thanks for a good time but not a long time. For whatever reason I am a married women and taken female magnet. but I now only fall for girls’ that are honest with me, sadly not every girl is honest

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

"One's doing it for survival. . .." I don't approve of that but at least I understand it. "and the other for love." That is such a bizarre plan for finding love.

NordicInScandinavia · Accepted Answer

As a young teen I used to sleep with married men not so much for money or love - tho I sometimes did it for the idea of being loved.

Then I know my aunts but now they did sleep with men for money, their marital status was not a factor there - they were doing a job.

Today, I've a low tolerance for cheating and belief that the actions of those I surround myself are a reflection on what I tolerate and who I am too. I know of people, both men and women, that sleep with married people but I have no desire in knowing them.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Yes I sleep with a married man every night! Good news is that he is married to me.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach on GAG, my goal is to dive into the nuances of love and relationships. It's a fascinating world, isn't it? 😏 Sleeping with married people can indeed happen for various reasons, like financial support or genuine feelings. However, these relationships often come with a rollercoaster of emotions and potential drama 🚀. It’s crucial to be aware of the heartstrings attached and potential red flags in such situations. Are your friends prepared for the emotional whirlwind?

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I've been married for decades and tons of women will sleep with me just because. I tend to avoid 'relationship-minded' women because that's just going to be full of conflicts with the expectation of shit that's never going to happen. I also avoid women who need money or their bills paid because I got better things to spend money on.

The niche of women I usually pull don't have love or money in mind. Some of the time they're just doing it for the thrill (married hot guy) or they're school/work professionals that simply don't have time for men in the normal way. The bulk are women who are taken themselves and they're just a combo of both of the other two... The thrill + don't have the time.

As I say this, it's not really a thing I do anymore. Probably a phase of my life that ran it's course because I started to view the extra pussy as not worth the effort. Plus I no longer have any interest in social events or people in general. I still hit the gym pretty hard, but it's mainly driven by my black fatigue of the N-words (not blacks in general... just the N-words).

dwreborn · Answer

No i dont for them reasons but people and relationships are the hardest and most surprising thing that can happen and change so quick without you even realizing between the old days when women needed men more to survive to now when women are more equal and self sufficient they dont need men like they used to and us men need to adjust to the reality of that which iam dealing with now and i always encouraged my wife to work go back to school and stuff but over time we grew apart and now its a change for us hopefully for the better

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Damn, for a nice girl you sure do have some sleazy a$$ friends.. Best friend's at that... But I knew a guy who worked at the gym, was married, and ended up in some type of "relationship" with a girl... It is common? Probably more than we'd like to think.. A lot of women (and men for different reasons) seem to be attracted to married people.. SMH.. It's this narcissistic culture we live in.. We really need to start bringing shame back..

loveyouoak · Answer

I don't personally know anyone, but in general, it's pretty common here for women to sleep with married men for money. I think sleeping with married men has become a reasonable way to live a fun and free life. If I were a bit younger (18-21), I'd probably have done the same. 😃

Unycorn · Answer

Oh I know some who do it for fun. Not for money or for love. Some are in an open relationship and some are not. I dont judge. Everyone can do as he or she wants. It is just not my cup. So I want to be able to look in the mirror every day. Loyal to myself and the values that are mine.

avery58 · Answer

I know one cheater, but she's not doing it for either of those reasons. She cheated because she hates her husband who cheated on her, the only problem with that is that the guy she cheated with is married and his wife just had a kid not so long ago. Anyway I think she stopped seeing him at least... I don't approve of any form of cheating, and I've told the girl I know that cheating is wrong too.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I don’t know anyone doing it
I know it’s a common thing these days

I wouldn’t partake in a woman’s adultery
But if her husband gave permission because he himself is out of commission I would gladly “do her s favor” if she’s my type of course

I don’t have a religious issue with the concept itself
But I do insist it comes from a place of informed consent and shared happiness

worldscolide · Answer

i knew someone who did that.. She slept with married men for both money and love. I stopped being her friend a long time ago though.. In 2014 a wife of a man who she was sleeping with caught her, and nearly killed her and her husband.

Regardless of gender, going after someone who is taken or married is moronic at best, monstrous at worse and could end up costing them their life. I dont mourn people like that.

shortster · Answer

I would do it for money; but I doubt anyone would pay me. I am too fidgetty in my sleep. I once went to sleep with my head on one side of the bed only to wake up with it on the other side; and this was a twin bed up against the wall. I was so wrapped up in blankets it took me 20 minutes to free myself.

Anonymous · Answer

I've slept with married women. I love sex and women/pleasing women. But if I'm completely honest, for me it's also an ego thing. There's something exteremely flattering about a woman coming to ME becauase her husband isn't good enough.

As for know, my DAD cheated on my mom with a married woman.

Abbycado · Answer

Not that I want to think about this (cringe) but technically my dad probably sleeps with my mom out of love. They seem pretty cozy together XD

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I sleep with whoever.. I don't care about their relationship status. If they are cheating, they have their reasons. If she's going to cheat, it might as well be with me.

molonski2 · Answer

It's extremely common on many levels , the easiest to get are those that are married , and the easiest to control also.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not currently but it’s not impossible. I think it’s mostly because my friends are all in their late teens and early twenties and too young to really know very many married men.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Do I know any cheaters?  Yes, but they do it for sex and not much else.

AgentG111 · Answer

Yes women for me at one point it was for the money and things she provided me. Once or twice it was for love (that I thought we had for each other) My complete mistake they were liars to this day!

msmissydc · Answer

I sleep with my husband, a married man for love. 😅

Fireguy17 · Answer

I did it for sex. I don't think anyone would actually pay me for sex. And after their divorce was final it turned into something.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

@simslover92 guess some people have their coping's

Eleni6_ · Answer

My neighbor's wife came home, and his stuff was all over the lawn.

Jennz6 · Answer

Only if he doesn’t tell me that he’s married

Athena7_ · Answer

I have a friend who sleeps with a couple and continues with the wife, but not for money. Her husband doesn't know they continued.

Sal_Monella · Answer

Married men and women do both with each other.

Jay-_- · Answer

Sleeping with a married person for love is really on some movie, drama vibes. 😂

msc545 · Answer

Yes I know women who sleep with married men for money. They are called prostitutes.

smahala1991 · Answer

U have heard some do although im not sure my friends have

AviatorTom · Answer

Lots of spouses do. 😎

Anonymous · Answer

I know someone but I don't support that kind of behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope , I try not to not hang around gold diggers

fivebyfour · Answer

I suck off married guys because I love cock lol,,,

Account · Answer

No one I know does that to be honest

fonduegirl · Answer

Stupid and immoral. I could never

lucas262 · Answer

Survival. Like McDonald's isn't hiring

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dudeinohio · Answer

Nah. Isn't happening around me.

nawtee_me · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Nah, I sleep with them for the sex.

sage2021 · Answer

Nope!

Paige90 · Answer

Yes I do

jazzy34 · Answer

Not personally.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No. .

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Yes, I do!

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