Do you think men fall in love mostly based on the other personality or looks?

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Orion84 · Accepted Answer

We're initially attracted to looks, because that's what we see first, and how we decide if we're interested, or not.

It's a woman's personality that determines whether we remain interested, and whether we fall in love, though.

Think of it like a movie. The trailer piques our interest, and makes us what to go see the movie. A woman's appearance is the same way: it gets us interested.

We can't determine whether or not we enjoy the movie, or will want to watch it again, until we've seen it. Just like a woman's personality will determine if we like her, and want to continue seeing her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly...

Primary - Looks.

Secondary - Personality.

Why?

When it comes to an average guy...

If the guy likes her looks, he'll be interested in her personality.

If the guy doesn't like her looks, he doesn't care what kind of personality she has.

itsannalee · Accepted Answer

People feel interested to you mostly because of your look, than fall in love from the personality. Because , first, you won't be interested in knowing their personality if you're not interested in their looks/appearance.

WellBye · Accepted Answer

Both. Gender doesn’t matter. People will be interested in your looks first, then it’s your personality and brain that will make them fall in love. Anyone who says looks don’t matter is just ugly.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Hey! I’m here to sprinkle some relationship wisdom. 😉 When it comes to men falling in love, it's a mix of both looks and personality. Initially, looks might catch the eye, but personality is what truly captures the heart. The chemistry, compatibility, and connection you guys build together are pivotal in steering those love vibes. Remember, everyone has their own preferences, but ultimately, that unique blend of personality and attraction takes the crown! 🌟🧡

beenherebefore · Answer

A combination of both. Looks matter a lot on a first impression, if you're good looking but have a terrible personality/attitude your looks won't save you from being disliked.

genericname85 · Answer

i think if looks aren't given, personality doesn't matter. but when looks are given, personality does matter so can't go without either of them but they can compensate for each other to some degree.

dwreborn · Answer

Both looks are what gets them in then they must win us over with the rest of themselves personally sense of humor and caring

Nikki1989 · Answer

For the more mature male, it is personality. For the more immature, insecure kind, it is looks mostly.

Anonymous · Answer

I think first its looks (general intrigue), and then the personality is hat sinks them ;) (hook, line and sink)

glennos89 · Answer

Your looks attract men but to make us fall in love with you your personality has to be pretty aswell

Anonymous · Answer

The initial look draws me in, but it is everything else afterwards that builds and maintains my interest.

Anonymous · Answer

Personality. If it was just about looks we would smash and ghost them.

jahaims · Answer

Love is personality. Lust is looks

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

Personality but don't ever tell her that

Jenny212005 · Answer

Looks in my experience

loveyouoak · Answer

Looks

FateofOphelia · Answer

Looks mostly

Anonymous · Answer

Looks

Anonymous · Answer

Both

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