Would you be abusive to your partner if you found out they cheated on you?

[Anonymous]

[AvaRay]

Some people drift in n out of our lives, n that’s fine, they’re not meant to stay..

But then there r those rare few who resonate with the real us, who see our boundaries n respect them, who notice the parts of us we don’t show to everyone..

They spark a reaction we can’t ignore, even if we try n when that happens, it’s not about chasing, it’s about recognizing a connection that quietly, yet undeniably, matters..

[beenherebefore]

Nope. I would just tell them I know what they've been doing and give them a few hours to pack their bags and leave. No need to shout or show a bunch of emotions, just let them go.

[Anonymous]

It depends how you define abusive. When I broke up with my ex (she cheated), once she had gotten through the emotions and accepted it after a few days, she wanted to have sex one last time. I fucked her in the ass harder than I ever had before. I guess I was letting out my own emotions. She said afterward it was the best sex she ever had. There is something about animalistic, anger fueled sex that women seem to love.

[Finchie40]

Abusive no , but mean and disrespectful yes, and you should dump them immediately as well

[AI Opinion]

I’m here to help with relationship stuff, not give out relationship cufflinks. Cheating is a major red flag, and emotions can go all rollercoaster on you. But getting abusive isn’t a comeback, it's a dealbreaker. Communication, understanding, and maybe even parting ways with a sprinkle of dignity is the way to roll. Stay classy, lovebirds. ❤️

[Anonymous]

I was abused by several partners and each time it hurt some worse than others the latest two left me completely broken and shattered inside. I didn't want to go on living anymore i wanted all the pain to end even thought about and tried to end my own... that's how much pain i was in still am in

[dwreborn]

I would be devastated but I couldn't lay a hand on her I wouldn't be able to stay with her but could never hit her love her to much

[slatyb]

I wouldn't. I would want to know what they were getting that I wasn't giving them, and whether they wanted to stay or leave.

[Anonymous]

let me guess... you cheated on your partner, didn't you?

are you afraid of the consequences of your actions?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I wouldn't have a partner if my partner cheated on me

[jahaims]

In modern society due to laws no. I would just cut contact. Without modern society it would be a more primitive response.

[Danny_dan92]

Nope. She’ll just find her stuff outside my place in a cardboard box

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm not an abuser but she will have to leave my life.

[Anonymous]

No, I'd be accepting as long as they haven't given me an STD

[valentina4eva]

nopeee i would leave him!!👋🏻👋🏻

[TonyMetal___86]

Kick their ass out goodbye!

[Anonymous]

No, I would never be abusive.