What should you do if room mate hid how bad their mental issues are and refuses to let you use the bathroom or other parts of the house?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to break the lease but I really can't live like this.

I get bothered every day. I feel like every day They have a crisis and want me to drop everything and just want someone home they can pick on all day

Leave break the lease

Stay

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7 mo

They want me use a hospital urinal or pee in a potty training chair for a child. but we have two bathrooms!!! They want me to ask permission to pee.
They do this with the kitchen also.
It's madness

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7 mo

They claim they want me to work more but always has a crisis. That i have to fix

[Finchie40]

How many room mates do you have? If I was you I would break that lease and get the fuck out of there ASAP , I would also call 911 and have them 302’ed for being mentally ill , when the cops
And ambulance show show up , tell them that your roommates need professional help and that they threatened to harm you or themselves, even if they didn’t say it , and they will be taken away to a psych hospital and put in there for 72 hours or more depending on how they cooperate. During that time , pack your things and get out of there , forget that lease and find somewhere normal to live instead of dealing with that nonsense

[Dennisjf12]

Your not making any since, You say your room mate has bad mental problems that you never knew about, That legally voids the lease. Then You talk like you're in the hospital in the mental word, wear I have been, If I am correct you were in a bed with the side rails up, the reason for calling them is to put the side rails down for you and to help you to the bathroom as to keep you from falling on the floor, then when we take our meds every day as we so we don't our problems, as with all of us. Dennis

[Dennisjf12]

Make sure he gets back on his meds and if his meds are not working then sure he gets back to see the Dr. or have him put in the hospital if things get too bad. Dennis

[Anonymous]

I’d tell them to fck off and continue using the the items and the spaces that I also pay for. You have rights, don’t let them bully you or make you miserable.

[Asker]

They said In the military their you ask them ask to pee so I should have to ask to go pee because we are following military rules and regulations

[Asker]

Like that sounds ridiculous

[Asker]

We aren't in boot camp. They think I have their safety deposit box too. And I don't.

[Asker]

The keyl for their safety deposit box
They destroy my room and my stuff every time I can't find my stuff

[Opinion Owner]

Is this military housing or something? Are there other roommates? I’m unfamiliar with how that all works.

[Asker]

No the grew up and there dad was in the military and they compare everything to the military.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow! Please stop letting him put you through these weird things. You aren’t a guest, you pay rent there. He can’t tell you how to pee or not to use the kitchen, you have rights.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, darling, sounds like a real-life soap opera, but not the fun kind! Living with a roommate who's got a mental baggage and is hogging the bathroom can be a red flag waving a bit too feverishly. Communication is key, but remember, it's not your job to play therapist. Chat them up with kindness yet firmness. Maybe even scope out some temporary solutions or seek external help. Stay strong. Your sanity (and bathroom time) is super important! 😊🏠🚽

[Staximus]

Don't put up with that bullshit. Tell them you're going to use the bathroom like a normal person or you're moving out.

[Staximus]

If you signed a lease with a property management that's one thing. With a person then just leave.

[Staximus]

Just use the bathroom and call the cops if they make s big deal out of it

[jahaims]

Get the law involved