Its just so stressful. Obviously at first I was angry. But now I am so tired and worn out about this and stressed out. I have already told the landlord/owners and they do not give a crap. First they lied to me explicitly telling me this specific roommate wanted a smoke free apartment. So I was excited to move in. Then days or so before signing the lease this girl texts me introducing herself and asking if i smoke and saying is it ok if she smokes anyway and even after i said NO i am not for multiple reasons including health and money reasons (smoke damages the apartment walls plus its not allowed!). She continued to try to question me on whether she could do it when im not home or hide the smell. Like wtf? No means no. Anyway long story short, months into this lease she starts regularly smoking in her room and when i grouptext asking whos smoking, she never responds and acts like i said nothing and she's friends with the other roommates and none of them are friends with me so they either ignore me too or pretend they know nothing about what she's doing. So i tell the owner whats going on and he pretends to care and says if i tell him their numbers he can tell them smoking isn't allowed. Yeah ok. So helpful. Anyway i didn't tell him... Clearly he doesn't care and isn't gonna do anything. Telling them what they already know isn't going to make them stop. Its a joke.
I woke up last morning outside my room and smelled weed in the common area. Clearly she can't contain the smell and she also doesn't give a damn if i know. She is a controlling selfish person in more than one way and thinks i have to answer to her and bend to her house rules no matter how trivial yet i ask her to stop smoking weed due to health reasons and she completely ignores me. I feel like a walking worthless ghost. Its 3 roommates against one and i feel like a piece of crap that means nothing.
I woke up last morning outside my room and smelled weed in the common area. Clearly she can't contain the smell and she also doesn't give a damn if i know. She is a controlling selfish person in more than one way and thinks i have to answer to her and bend to her house rules no matter how trivial yet i ask her to stop smoking weed due to health reasons and she completely ignores me. I feel like a walking worthless ghost. Its 3 roommates against one and i feel like a piece of crap that means nothing.
