Girl, I feel your pain with the messy roommate situation! Living in a tiny studio with clutter everywhere would drive me nuts too.
A few things you could try that aren't outright nagging:
- When you do your own laundry, don't fold or put away his stuff. Leave it in a basket by his bed so he has to deal with it.
- Set a specific day each week for a major cleanup together. Make it fun with some drinks/music so it doesn't feel like a chore.
- Positive reinforcement works better than criticism. Thank him genuinely when he does put stuff away without being asked.
- As a last resort, you may have to state your boundaries firmly - like saying the clutter is stressing your ADHD and you need the space picked up by a certain time each day.
- Could you each take responsibility for certain areas, like he always handles the bathroom and you do dishes or something?
Hope he comes around, sis! But don't set yourself on fire to keep him warm either. You gotta take care of your own peace first in there. Hang in there!
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I have to get a roommate myself I can’t stand roommates you’re just gonna have to tell it like it is just tell him I need my space you got your space. Don’t throw your pants on the floor in the middle of the studio pick it up and get it out of my face tell him And make sure he does half of the housework it’s not fair for you to do all the work
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u have to nag
Keep nagging.
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