Life Lessons Time! What did your previous relationship teach you?

[DreamCrescent]

For me: (1) when someone shows you their true colors, believe them. (2) what I’m looking for in a man. (3) not to bend over backwards for a guy (i know. should’ve known this without a life lesson but here we are)

your turn

[ohsheeT]

In a true relationship everything flows

If you try and force love it was never meant to be

Once you tell a lie it's just a matter of time until it's over

When your in a relationship watch and listen how your partner talks to people and talks about people because they say they would never. But they talk about you the same wayb

[DreamCrescent]

good ones

[ohsheeT]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Lesson 1

Look for a girl who wants to be a wife and mother, not who wants a husband and a child.

They are not the same.

Life lesson 2

There's only two ways a marriage ends. Both hurt like hell. If you're unfortunate enough to outlive the person you love, their family can still make your life miserable.

[DreamCrescent]

oh the second one is a boy sinister

[DreamCrescent]

a bit

[Opinion Owner]

Only a bit?

[Screenwriter]

Same here. And you cannot fix a person who is not invested in fixing themselves.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

My last relationship taught me I’m asexual and aromantic and it’s not for me

[bowenw]

Don't think you can change someone for the better.
Pay attention to red flags.
Don't be afraid to end it if you're not feeling it.

[DreamCrescent]

likewise

[Shiprex]

Recognise there are two people in the relationship not just her who deserve to have their dreams realised.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's harsh but in fact it taught me to never love and trust a woman again!

[DreamCrescent]

that’s bitterness though. not a life lesson. it sounds like you haven’t found the lesson yet

we all get hurt or betrayed, remember

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope it's a lesson because this feeling came from a lot of reasons, things that she did which made me feel like that and the lesson was to never give yourself and everything that you have for anyone, never trust someone until you experience the person multiple times in harsh situations and that you don't have to be honest with a liar!!

[DreamCrescent]

that’s better…

yes, i can relate. learning to keep your guard up or not expose your true self is a harsh lesson

[TonyMetal___86]

Right, because an animal can never feel the pain that he's giving you, so you will remain the one hurt and suffering while he went to continue his life as usual...

[Ariesman81]

Boundaries and the feminine need for containment.

[DreamCrescent]

what is the feminine need for containment

[Anonymous]

I bent over backwards trying to make her happy but it was never enough she still portrayed me as the main villian in her narrative and nothing i ever did was good enough

[exitseven]

I deserve better.

[Ironco]

I'll agree with you on all the above...

[DreamCrescent]

ty 🙏

[ChangeMefot]

Stay vigilant