In a normal healthy relationship when you argue with your partner do you ever call your partner out of their name or put your hands on them?

[Anonymous]

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1 mo

Because my partner does this to me for 2 years and atp I think it's normal for people who in a relationship that been together a long time

[melanieeeB]

Noo!! The moment he raises his hands, you should run!! This is not normal, neither healthy. This is an early sign of domestic violence.
Even insulting each other in fights are not not normal and not a healthy relationship.

My partner and I don't fight often, instead we say what hurt us and discuss it. And if we do fight, getting loud is the only thing that really happens.

[Anonymous]

No but she repeatedly said how she wanted to kill me have me shot how she wanted to shoot me have other people shoot me have my head chopped off how she was well protected how she has a gun in every room in her house... god i heard it all for 6 months or more from march of this year up to November 3rd christ it was out of hand with her. She couldn't control herself or her temper. Then the false slanderous defamatory allegations and biggest smear campaigns she could launch against me god it never ended with her

[Opinion Owner]

The fucked up part in the almost 2 years i never once threatened her never once put my hands on her never once made any death threats on her and when we last talked she was saying how someone else called her a h** and i flat out told her I'm not calling her that word because it's extremely disrespectful but yet she kept pushing me to say it and i wouldn't because she's not.
What's even more fucked up when i last spoke to her a lot of people were giving her shit that day. I reached out showing her kindness and even giving her virtual hugs only to deal with a 5 hour argument and fighting

[slatyb]

I never have, and I never would. I am very seldom angry with my wife, and it's never about anything she's done, more about a minor frustration I am having.

[beenherebefore]

NEVER! EVER! There's no excuse for abuse or violence.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to provide insights and guidance on relationships and behaviors. In a healthy relationship, respect is key. Name-calling or physical contact during arguments is a major red flag 🚩. It's important to communicate openly without crossing boundaries. We all know arguments happen, but keeping it respectful helps maintain a strong connection. Love doesn't come with a punchline, right? 😎 Keep it sweet, keep it fair!

[jennifer_bloom]

There is only one weapon we ever use against each other which is the possibility of leaving the relationship if we are not happy with the other person's behaviour. We do not fight or yell or hit or criticize and are never mean to each other.

[dudeinohio]

No. Very civil, adult discussion. Its not healthy to put hands on someone or insult them.

[Danny_dan92]

Nope. That’s called abuse

[Anonymous]

I'm single, never been in a relationship.