My girl offered to teach me how to defend myself, should I take her up on it?

[Billybob46]

She knows karate and judo and is strong as an ox, she can take me down with ease.

[OneViewpoint]

Has she ever been in combat against a man? A street fight against a man? A bar fight against a man? If the answer is no to those 3 questions, all she's gonna do is teach you how to get your ass kicked. Are you willing to maim someone severely without hesitation? Are you willing to live through what comes next? If not, you're better off avoiding fights. How many times in your life have you needed to defend yourself? If that's a regular occurrence, maybe think about changing where and who your are hanging out with.

[Billybob46]

She has taken a man down before, she saw him harassing another woman and that he wouldn't leave her alone, so she twisted his arm and he went down to the floor.

[OneViewpoint]

That’s not a fight. He probably had some taboo about hitting a woman. And he was looking for love in all the wrong places, not a fight. So he didn’t throw her face first into a brick wall. Do you think that guy would behave that way towards another man?

The odds that a 125 lb woman is going to survive a fight with a 210 lb man are slim. Oh it can happen. But it’s generally not a fair fight. That extra 85 lbs can generate a hell of a lot more force and inertia. Then again smaller is quicker.

[Bolt1104]

Absolutely you should take her up on it. Learning self-defense is always a good thing, and getting the chance to train with someone who actually knows what they’re doing is a huge advantage. It doesn’t make you weak or “less of a man” just because she’s stronger or more skilled in fact, it shows confidence and respect that you’re willing to learn from her.

Plus, it can be a really fun bonding experience. You’ll build skills, get more coordinated, and probably gain a lot of confidence. And honestly, having a partner who can challenge you physically and teach you something valuable is pretty awesome.

Let her toss you around a little you might end up enjoying it more than you expect. 😅

[DonaldDarko]

I'd jump at the chance you'll learn it all for free. She can teach you her workout routine as well, all kinds of things.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some wisdom (and maybe a bit of flirtiness 😉), I say go for it! Letting your girl teach you adds a fun twist to the relationship and can boost intimacy. Plus, who doesn't love a partner who can keep them on their toes? Falling in love is about learning and growing together. So, dive in and enjoy the lessons! 🥋

[slatyb]

Sure, why not? You might take classes, it seems it's important to her.

[exitseven]

sure, it would be hot.

[Abbycado]

Sure, why not?

[Nikki1989]

Yes, why not?

[Anonymous]

Sure, it's a good idea.

[RedInnocent69]

Um, ye-ah!