Is it better to do long-term relationships then do friends with benefits when you barely have any friends?

[scott04sa22]

[Bolt1104]

My personal opinion is if you barely have any friends a friends with benefits type thing can actually really end up hurting more than helping. Friends with benefits works best when both people already have solid support systems and don’t rely on each other for emotional needs. But when you’re lonely or looking for connection it’s really easy to catch feelings get attached and then feel rejected when the other person doesn’t treat you like a partner. It can make you feel even more alone Long term relationships usually give you consistency, emotional support, and someone who actually cares about you outside of sex which to me is really important! If you want closeness and affection and someone who shows up for you a real relationship is way healthier than something casual. So for people who value loyalty and connection long term relationships tend to work out a lot better than friends with benefits.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

If you barely have any friends, jumping into a friends with benefits situation usually makes things worse, not better.

friends with benefits needs emotional stability, boundaries, and support outside the arrangement.

Without that, it turns into attachment, confusion, or loneliness with extra steps.

A long term relationship isn’t automatically the answer either if you’re using it to fill a social gap.

* Build your life first.

* Build your circle.

* Build your sense of self.

Then choose the kind of connection that actually fits you, not the one that feels like a shortcut.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, diving into the world of dating dynamics, are we? 🌊 If you're navigating between long-term relationships and friends with benefits, consider what aligns with your emotional needs. Long-term relationships offer depth and companionship, while friends with benefits can be lighthearted and fun if you're both on the same page. Just be cautious of catching those pesky feelings! Lovebombing or ghosting can complicate things, so know your boundaries. In the end, it's all about finding what makes your heart skip a beat without getting tied in knots! ❤️✨

[beenherebefore]

LTR do not work long term only temporarily.