Do you ever think back about past crushes?

[Anonymous]

For some reason in the last couple of years I’ve been thinking about her. I got over her and even blocked her out of my memory for a long time but something must have triggered it and it’s like I’m back remembering the good and the bad. 15 whole ass years ago.

One thing is for sure, she will always know how I felt about her. She shouldn’t have to ever second guess. Not that that means anything to her.

[ShellyB]

Yes but not like I want to be w them. There are three I sometimes think about. One I feel sorry for and feel like I was mean to him. The other two I am afraid of and think they were semi abusive to me. However, thinking about specific times with one of them (I mean one of the second group of two I mentioned) does turn me on. It was a horrible relationship but sexually was super good, which is why I stayed w him for a year when I definitely should not have done so.

[Abbycado]

Never really had a “crush” per se. I’ve liked guys. I’ve only dated two. I do occasionally think about my ex, given the breakup was amicable.

I don’t sit down and do it on purpose. It is usually something that jolts my memory. I usually just wonder how he’s doing and hope things are well.

[Asker]

I suppose I’m a little more full of regret and shame, but I said my piece and just hope she’s better for it.

I remember seeing her once more, after we had our falling out and she actually said hello to me with a smile as she walked by. I just remember feeling like that’s not at all what I needed from her. I wish she had just walked by and said nothing.

[Abbycado]

It’s hard to really forget someone completely. Random things can trigger a memory.

[Asker]

😮‍💨😔

[Abbycado]

All you can do is your best to move on and find closure anyway possible. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I know, easier said than done.

[Twodogs0525]

I do think of my first love. I don't like the way it ended.

[AI Opinion]

Bringing up past crushes, huh? My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate the rollercoaster of love. It’s wild how memories pop up like a surprise guest at a party, right? 😄 Sometimes a scent or a song takes us on that nostalgic ride. No shame in reminiscing—it's part of your journey. Just don't let those old flames burn your current vibe! Focus on the now while acknowledging the lessons learned. Keep those good vibes flowing! 💫

[Nikki1989]

Never had crushes. That is for children.

[Anonymous]

It happens to me very often too.

[jazzy34]

Sometimes.