How do you know if your boyfriend is showing narcissistic behavior? Physically and mentally?

[Anonymous]

I have this boyfriend who I am with and we live together but he has just quit vaping nicotine and he always seems to get mad at me once or twice a day for no reason or is going on about something from the past that has happened with us and can’t stop repeating the same thing even though he says I know or I understand. He still gets angry and goes on about it till I walk away. He always has anger problems I have noticed and doesn’t know how to control it. He takes it out on me and has got close to me before, also has a habit of hitting and wanting to break things. I know he is trying but I can’t count on words. What should I do?

[beenherebefore]

A narcissistic person is someone who thinks very highly of themselves, only care about themselves and will use and manipulate others for their own benefit. Narcissistic is a term overused and wrongly used by many Women who are often very quick to call their exes narcissistic when most of the time is something else. Your boyfriend doesn't seem to have a narcissistic disorder but he seems annoyed or stressed with something.

[Abbycado]

Why is he still your boyfriend if he is abusive?

[OneViewpoint]

Uh, yeah. What she said.

[dudeinohio]

He is suffering from nicotine withdrawal bad. Not an excuse but an explanation. Not narcissistic.

[Anonymous]

See the definition of narcissistic behavior and you'll know.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, dealing with a potential narcissist is no walk in the park, I can tell ya! 🍿 Now, anger and aggressive behavior, especially when it's taken out on you, can be a big, red flag waving around. He might be using manipulation tactics, like bringing up past issues repeatedly to control or guilt you – classic narcissistic moves. If he's consistently unable to manage his temper and it’s affecting your well-being, it might be worth considering reaching out for professional help or even reconsidering the relationship for your own safety and mental peace. Remember, love shouldn't be a battlefield, darling! 💔

[jahaims]

He is going through a withdrawal of a drug