Is it still cheating if a husband is sexting with other women other than his wife?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

You can look at it that way. But it all most worse than cheating if he's doing it right in front of you. So disrespectful, it shows you exactly who he is, and what he's all about. And he's not worth being married to him

What would he do or say if you started texting some guy.

Wonder if he would get passed off

[Asker]

he's kinda asking me question if I already have a boyfriend. He said he will respectful when I finally found a boyfriend. Also I ghosted him he said my friend is hotter than me. And his last texts were "You are ignoring me. Have a nice life, Bye"

[ohsheeT]

Well i can guarantee it. You will be 10 times happier and you will be treated right now. I'm sorry to say , but your husband was cold blooded and straight up road , I don't know if it's a sad part about it or a good part about it , but it will all come back to him in the same way

[ohsheeT]

I mean, I can't tell you what to do.\n But I wouldn't give him the time of day. He will try to get back with you. I guarantee it because the first girlfriend that he gets are the first girl he starts seeing, she will find out exactly who he is and she will say, get out.

[Asker]

Nope I was someone he was flirting talking with. I felt bad about his wife too. But her husband and I never had sex irl.

[ohsheeT]

I see so was he trying to make you jealous , so you would have sex with him

[Asker]

Nope. I ghosted him. Like I said he told me my friend was hotter and he never even compliments me. So I ghosted him.

[ohsheeT]

And I'm sure one day his wife will do the same

[Asker]

Nope they are both seniors already he's 66 and she's 68

[ohsheeT]

Well he didn't really sound like he was that fun of a guy anyway

[Asker]

Yeah thats why I ghosted he's not a good man or a man I should be dating with.

[ohsheeT]

Yes not if he's married what made you be interested in but only if your honest

[Asker]

He was nice at first. I was lonely and he was always there talking to me. I got attached. He always say I love you. he's not rich or attractive either lol

[ohsheeT]

That was very cool so you dont talk to him any more do you regret it in any way

[Asker]

I regret it yes. I felt bad for his wife. I should be staying away with married men. I dont wanna date a cheater in future.

[ohsheeT]

I think that's cool I have found that when we let people in to ourselves there is always a reason either your going to help them through something or they are going to help them through something or your going to teach or guide them through something or the other way round and there always seems to be a message for both

I always am curious about things.

[Asker]

Really? So there's a reason why I met him to teach me and him a lesson. So maybe God let me met him to find better in future.

[ohsheeT]

Well that's maybe the way I see it pluses a little more probably

[ohsheeT]

What are you doing for new years

[Asker]

Tbh not so much. I slept late last night because of loud noise. Last night I just ate and sang on Karaoke. Oh and its New Years already where I live. Hbu

[ohsheeT]

Nope i still have 2 hours.\nAnd forty four minutes

[ohsheeT]

Well happy new year

[ohsheeT]

Can you Dm me instead of being on your question

[Asker]

Sure.

[ohsheeT]

Cool thank you

[OlderAndWiser]

Forget the word "cheating," as it leads onto stupid discussions about whether something is "technically" cheating. Instead, ask yourself if the questioned behavior is something that would be done openly and without hesitation in the presence of the spouse; if the answer is "no," then why not? The obvious answer is that the behavior is contrary to the spouse's expectations and constitutes a violation of their trust. At that point, does it matter that the beavior may not "technically" be cheating?

[RavVid]

I have always liked the definition of cheating by one of the pinks here.

If you wouldn't tell your partner what you did it is cheating.

Probably a husband wouldn't show his wife his sexts to other women, so I think it is.

[Nikki1989]

Of course it is cheating, but watch this space; men will try to tell you it is not.

[Orion84]

I would absolutely consider that cheating, yes.

[Brady]

What u don't like is cheatin. Set rules 4 each othr.

[Anonymous]

Sexting? No... just "saying something" is not necessary "doing something".

[Finchie40]

Yes that’s cheating

[beenherebefore]

That's 100% cheating.

[BarryLiverstone]

Does his wife know that he’s sexting?

[Asker]

No..

[BarryLiverstone]

Then it’s cheating. Much like If she’s not awake he’s cheating on his diet and eating Dunkin behind her back.

Does she have any clues?

[Asker]

I dont think so.

[BarryLiverstone]

If she’s got no clues then he will keep doing it. And she’s not got to worry right

[BarryLiverstone]

Her husband still gives her compliments

[Asker]

Nah. They are like separated in bed but not divorced.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok, that’s a problem and a big clue something is wrong. If he’s not into how she looks anymore and in bed he’s not hard then she probably feels horrible

[BarryLiverstone]

When did he stop desiring her?

[Asker]

When she got old and she looks old

[BarryLiverstone]

Then if she wants his attention, she can decide to make a change in her lifestyle and get into shape. Does she look bad?

[Asker]

Not sure. I haven't seen her.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok. Are you the girl he’s sexting with?

[Asker]

Used to.

[BarryLiverstone]

I see. He found someone better. Tough luck

[Asker]

No I ghosted him😂

[BarryLiverstone]

No way. You are a baddie lol

[Asker]

Yeah I mean he is married I can't have him

[BarryLiverstone]

Technically you could have him. But likely you would get bored

[Asker]

I just realize Im single and can someone single and not chase married men

[BarryLiverstone]

But you also fell lonely and miss his texts

[BarryLiverstone]

Feel*

[Asker]

Sometimes.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thought so. You are remembering him now and feeling alone

[Asker]

Maybe he missed me too lol

[BarryLiverstone]

You think so?

[Asker]

Maybe lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Go ahead and follow me on here

[Asker]

I already di

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok, send me a message cuz you are anon lol

[Asker]

You already know me

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s obvious

[Anonymous]

Yes. That’s cheating.

[wkhan_87]

Ofcourse it is emotional cheating

[Anonymous]

In my opinion it's not

[Dargil]

Yes.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Indeed it is

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes it is.

[Anonymous]

Yep.

[Anonymous]

yes of course