Is it cheating for a married man to be following a bunch of women on social media?

[Anonymous]

[ManOnFire]

So I imagine you're talking about him following a bunch of Insta gals or maybe even just women in general. I have a relative who has a fiance he's known for years but this guy still follows tons of Insta gals with huge butts and 18 year-olds and to this day I don't understand how his lady doesn't know it, and if she does she must be okay with it, but I really doubt it.

If he's talking sex or romance with them or actually meeting up with them with those intentions, yes. But just because he's following them doesn't exactly make it cheating.

[Asker]

Can your girlfriend or wife follow a bunch of guys on social media?

[ManOnFire]

I have dated a woman before who did that. It didn't bother me until I knew some of them were more than just friends.

[Asker]

That doesn’t make much better sense as long as they aren’t talking to them then it’s not cheating.

[ManOnFire]

It does. She was just like your guy, but she was messing with some of those men. If she wasn't and she just had them as followers or friends it wouldn't be a big deal.

[Hardon-Collider]

It's not about cheating; it's about creating a spiritual vacuum. When you passively observe a collection of people, you're building walls in your own soul. You're separating yourself from them, and that separation radiates outwards. It creates a void, a space of special emptiness around you. And in that space, beings that feed on emptiness can thrive. It's not about the act itself, but the environment you are creating for yourself and what you're letting in.

[HollyK21]

That’s not cheating. If he were to reach out and start talking to those women then that would turn into emotional cheating.

[UniquelyBasic]

It's not cheating but there is an aspect of it, depending on the kind of content the women post, could be disrespectful to you.

[es20490446e]

It means that the man doesn't understand what is the value of a woman, married or single.

[Asker]

Why are people making it seem like it’s not cheating?

[es20490446e]

It doesn't matter if it is cheating or not.

It means that the man doesn't sees the value of what women brings to the table.

Otherwise he won't be carving for such superfluous interaction.

[Anonymous]

It is if she asks him not to. Otherwise, it doesn't seem quite that bad.

[Nikki1989]

Not even close.

[Asker]

So you’re ok with your boyfriend following porn stars and liking their photos?

[Anonymous]

If you can pay for something, it's cheating.

[Kelly6]

Thats not cheating, its social media

[In_Trance]

No it isn't

[Asker]

Can your girlfriend follow a bunch of guys?

[In_Trance]

She can follow whoever she wants.

[Asker]

Shirtless guys?

[In_Trance]

If that's what she wants to follow, have at it