Have you ever cheated? If so, what was your excuse?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I did but it was back when I was in high school. Not sure if what I did as a minor counts for this question but I definitely cheated in high school.

In my freshman year I was a huge nerd who no one took seriously but in my sophomore year I made this plan to be really popular by getting more into sports working out taking more advanced classes talking to people more going to parties getting a job and getting my first car and it pretty much worked perfectly and I was suddenly really popular.

At first I went for a genuine relationship with this sweet girl I had a crush on since freshman year but when I realized I could get any girl I wanted I began to cheat on her especially since she wasn't ready for sex but I wanted sex right now. By the end of my sophomore year I swear I had slept with like more than half the girls in my grade level or at least it felt like it.

This continued on to halfway in my junior year when suddenly apparently one of the girls I slept with claimed she got pregnant because the condom broke during sex and suddenly everyone hated me for refusing to take care of the child and she being forced to have an abortion.

The rest of my junior year as well as my whole senior year the whole school hated me and wanted nothing to do with me.

I guess you could say that at the very least I learned this lesson when I was still a minor. Don't go fucking around and breaking women's hearts and lying to them.

Would suck to have to learn it as an adult. I learned it the easy way ay least.

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Never.

Cheating on your partner, in my honest opinion, is the worst thing you can do to your partner, irrespective of how your overall relationship is, how long you've been together, the ups and downs etc.

There is NO excuse for cheating and no forgiveness either. If you cheat on me, we're finished. You don't "accidentally" start a fling with someone spanning a few months (even years if you're that pathetic), you don't "accidentally" sleep with someone else other than your partner, and you don't "accidentally" touch them/let them touch you and end up making out with them.

We are finished.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I'd never think to cheat. When I know I want to be with someone, I'm with them, period. Like I told a partner once, "You're either with me... or you're not. You're either faithful... or you're not. And if you're not, then wtf are you doing with a girl like me?"

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

No I haven’t. I had an ex that constantly accused me of cheating on him and that in itself was uncomfortable. It was one of the many reasons I broke up with him

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach, my aim here is to guide and support folks through the ups and downs of love. Cheating is a red flag, and it’s often a symptom of a deeper issue like lack of communication, unmet needs, or even lovebombing gone wrong. Excuses never fix the damage; being real and open does. Let’s keep it loyal and spicy, my friend! 😊🔥

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, I have never cheated, but I had two partners (two I know about) who cheated on me.

HawkPerception · Answer

Cheating is for low EQ scumbags. Cheaters should only date cheaters. They're meant for each other.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I’ve never done it.
And there’s no “excuse” if I ever did.
Cheating is cheating and it’s a shitty thing to do

That being said I also understand context.

I recently met a woman who has a boyfriend and if I’m being honest, she texts me right now that she wants to hook up and I’m there.
It disgusts me to think about it but it’s also true

Because we have a bond like no other
It just sucks that we didn’t meet under favorable circumstances

I wouldn’t want to be a home wrecker but i know i’d do it in a heartbeat if it meant I get to be with her

That makes me an absolute asshole
And I wish it wasn’t that way
But I can’t help it, with a bond this strong everything else fades away

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not yet. I have had casual girlfriends in high school but never really cheated so to speak. I did get a handjob from a girl who was not my girlfriend so I guess that was cheating but we were not in a serious relationship. And the handjob sure felt way better than jerking off. hbu?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Usually, no but, every so often I MIGHT do a little manipulation of sorts if I'm losing the game but, as I'm not a sore loser at all, I usually don't bother cheating.
There was one time I was playing tic tac Toe with a computer that was supposedly impossible to beat. I beat it! I sort of cheated but I DID beat it!! It's kinda like when Capt. Kirk beat the no-win scenario in his test for Admiral by "cheating", doing something he SHOULDN'T have, really but, there was nothing in the rules that said he COULDN''T do it!

exitseven · Answer

I was in a long distance relationship with a girl who was saving it for marriage. I met a girl at a graduation party and she invited me back to her dorm room. I thought that we were just going to hang out but all of a sudden she asks me if I wanted to have sex with her. I never had sex before and did not know when the opportunity would happen again. My girlfriend lived 1500 miles away and there is no way that she would ever find out. So I did it.

Sunshinelips · Answer

Yes. The reason why is pathetic so I’ll keep it to myself but I’ve learnt that I truly never loved or respected these people if I cheated on them. I think when you truly love someone you would never hurt them or go behind their back.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah well, im into fit, strong, healthy, round ass women, but my girlfriend is a lazy a** fatty, which i don't like. Despite the fact that I have been requesting her to start working out (since like the 5 years now). But she doesn't give a fuck and tell me that I should change my standards instead, but when it comes to her standards she likes big jacked hunks who workout in the gym (which i am fortunately). After being frequently rejecting my offer, I couldn't handle it and cheated on her, with a fit, ripped, fat a** gym girl!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Not sure why but I got talking to this really hot basketball player and the next thing I know we were having the best sex.

Anonymous · Answer

My wife and I started out having a good sex life. Over time she lost interest. After kids, she lost all interest. We went to therapy for years. Finally, after about 7 years with no sex, I cheated.

molonski2 · Answer

Personally I have not , but over the years I have been with many women who were , around 11 off top of my head , so I have been part of it for sure.

Anonymous · Answer

Never in my life have i cheated.. And Here is the reality, Those that cheat, There is never an acceptable excuse, Never. Cheaters are monsters. they aren't capable of loving anyone but them selves. They exist without empathy, without a soul. I dont see them as human.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Nope. I'm always honest about where a person I'm with fits into my life. I don't like leading women on and cheating to me would be a stain on my integrity.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no I have not. I have been cheated on by an ex-wife and 2 girlfriends. They never gave an excuse, nor an apology. As soon as i found out I was gone.

snapkingmatt · Answer

I haven't, nor have I been cheated on. I would however be okay if my girlfriend has her adventures.

BruceWayne32123 · Answer

I did. My girlfriend at the time didn’t want to do anal and another girl tempted me with it and I couldn’t say no. Felt terrible after but it was still amazing and felt so good. I was very conflicted.

Nerdvana · Answer

Yes I have. No excuse. I was young, insecure and selfish.

Angelbabylips · Answer

Not in public. LOL! No, but hey I have looked, but that is about all.

Orion84 · Answer

I have never cheated, nor have I ever considered cheating.

elizamichale1 · Answer

A few times... it was revenge

MikeMcMansion · Answer

There is no good excuse just justifications conjured up to attempt to erase feelings of guilt and condemnation.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I did/do not need an "excuse". And: ( tolerating the term 'cheating) - yes

MrChinaski · Answer

Never have; never will. It's morally bankrupt, disgusting behaviour.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Yeah. Once on a spelling test in 3rd grade. Why? It didn't occur to me that I couldn't.🤣

LiamS95 · Answer

No I've never cheated but I have been cheated on.

hafinjun · Answer

Im a guy? ... no im kidding of course not " men" are able to control their needs.

Chrytina84 · Answer

No but wash accused of it when it was my ex with my cousin.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Absolutely not. I have provided and protected for all my women.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Sure, if you call it "cheating." in my opinion if the main bitch isn't putting out often enough, a guy is free to get his balls drained by whatever other bitch is available.

Elisetwopointoh · Answer

I haven't but I suppose lust or lack of feeling might be a thing?

69NeverGiveUp69 · Answer

I have. Definitely would not recommend it. I have a very high drive and I let list take control

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nope.

Billlewis · Answer

Not for a long time.

live2dance25 · Answer

Never have and never will.

Anonymous · Answer

If a woman won't have sex I dump her ass!

Kelly6 · Answer

@badwomen yes but long time ago

robocop666 · Answer

I have had women try to cheat on their boyfriends and husbands with me. I said no every time.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. Never have, never will

Pterodon · Answer

Didn’t love who I was with and yes I did end it

AgentG111 · Answer

Nope, been cheated on.

Abbycado · Answer

No, never.

shortster · Answer

Nope. There is no excuse for cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, never have, never would.

valentina4eva · Answer

nope!!🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️

theionano3 · Answer

i would never

wkhan_87 · Answer

Nope , thankfully

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