What are your personal non negotiables (in terms of boundaries, communication, current lifestyle, etc) in a relationship?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

[sage2021]

He must be a Christian (not Catholic Christian) and believes in Jesus Christ, has accepted Him as his personal Savior. Believe He was buried and rose again and He's coming back for us.

No lying, cheating or stealing!! No doing stuff or saving stuff behind my back. Standing up for me if I am right about something. I hate when I am telling someone what happened and I am telling the truth but they have to go and verify it.🙄 Have my back dude like I have yours!!

Mutual respect!!! Using good manners.

Clean - himself and his messes. No slobs.

Don't check out other women in front of me. That's disrespectful and pisses me off!! He will get the silent treatment for doing that one. No excuses!! No flirting in front of me either and then saying that you weren't. Come on!!

If we live together, married or not, you take out the trash. Period. And don't let it pile up in the kitchen.

Take care of my vehicle and maintain it because I am tired of doing it all the time and then you drive the damn car too!

Live in peace! ✌🏼 ☮️

Of course love each other and show it. Do it on purpose.

[sage2021]

I know that I said a swear word which isn't very Christian of me. I try not to do that when I am reliving memories from my past.
Please 🙏🏼 forgive me Lord.😞

[Simslover92]

Must be good with communication. If we're in a relationship, we need to try to be in contact with each other at least once a day if we don't live together or live close.

Honesty. No lying or cheating whether emotionally or physically.

Respect especially when it comes to giving time and space.

Must believe in God because I want to raise my children in a Christian home.

There's others but those are the main ones.

[CallmeTheKnight]

1. Don’t disrespect me in anyway
2. Don’t lie to me
3. I will not accept a woman who tells all what occurs from within the relationship

[NathanDavis]

no hatred...

so... no racist, no sexist, no phobics and all that

no political extremists either...

[AI Opinion]

So thrilled to dive into this one! As a relationship coach, nailing down your personal non-negotiables is like having a map on the road to love. For me, trust, open communication, respect, and shared life goals are the biggies. Ghosting is a huge no-no, and lovebombing is a slippery slope! Family time and reading are my non-negotiables because they're part of my self-care routine. Got to nurture that soul! Keep your boundaries clear and expect nothing less than what you deserve. That's how lifelong love is built! ❤️✨

[Nikki1989]

What you need is personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values.

Pretty basic stuff.

[queenofcardio]

I won't pursue a relationship with someone with anger issues, smokes and is a parent..

[Anonymous]

She must be dominant and ready to take initiative.