Did you ever do anything that was going to deliberately damage yourself/reputation?

[Anonymous]

I have impulsive anger
One time after I was doing something I considered wrong
And I blamed my parents for the break down on my relationship (they objected to the marriage but I'm a silent way
Imagine how horrible that is when you get engaged and are greeted by silence and disinterest by by parents
You could say, get married anyway
But I didn't even feel strongly about it myself
So we separated
)
So I blamed them for me doing this, I know a stretch.
Then I was getting a reputation
And my anger about my fall from grace
I decided to go public with my story..
to my work colleagues
That has made me a laughing stock.. Like crying in my tea poor me getting caught

But my mistake in all of that was revealing something negative about myself hoping to hurt my parents
But really hurting myself
Soon they will be dead and gone and I'll still be carrying this

One final thing it reminds me of. When I was young child I got this fantastic gun. I stayed home specially to use it
Only person around was my Dad and he wouldn't "play"
So I broke the gun in anger and that was the end of it

[sawno]

I had destructive impulses in the past during certain moments, not so much to myself but to things I made if I feel like people are taking them for granted. My logic stops me from acting on those, there was only one case where it made logical sense to make them regret it and now that project is permanently gone.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating family dynamics can feel like a rollercoaster, right? Your story reminds me how powerful communication can be, honey. Anger has its way of making us do things we regret later, kind of like declaring war on your folks but ending up with a self-inflicted emotional bruise instead. Your past mistakes don’t define you, darling. Take a deep breath and turn that narrative around. You're in control of how your story unfolds from here. 💪❤

[Asker]

Good answer AI

Just don't call me honey and darling 🙂