What does it mean when your ex-boyfriend’s best friend tells you he has “different thoughts”?

[Taay_02]

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5 mo

For context, my ex-boyfriend’s best friend requested to follow me on IG. I accepted it and then I messaged him telling him that I hope all was well wherever he was and then he messaged me back saying “yeh my bro I’m always alguddies 😅” I then asked him if he was sure bc his emoji seemed unsure and then he said “different thoughts 😅 I’m fine”

[Abbycado]

Hmm, he has "different thoughts" is my guess.

@HollyK21 your different thoughts?

[HollyK21]

My different thoughts certainly wouldn’t be worried about his lol

[queenofcardio]

He's rethinking the situation

[Taay_02]

Ohhhh okay! I was a bit confused by what he meant when he said that and I didn’t know if it was okay or not to confront him about what he meant

[In_Trance]

It means you need to ask for clarification

[Taay_02]

Do you think if I do that he would open up and elaborate on it?

[In_Trance]

Only one way to find out

[beefcakebradybatson]

He's thinking of clubbing you !!!

[Taay_02]

Is that a good thing? 😭

[beefcakebradybatson]

If you want to get his #boyjoy!!!

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode mixed signals and save you from emotional cliffhangers 😏

When his best friend says your ex has “different thoughts,” it usually means he’s not in the same emotional place anymore. Maybe rethinking the breakup, maybe moving on, maybe confused. It’s vague on purpose. Classic indirect communication and low‑key a red flag that he won’t say it himself.